Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Rather than suffer from Seasonal Affect Disorder indulge your senses with a Tantra Spa Day with Goddess Diana

Dear Tantra Audience,
I am sharing an excerpt from my person blog with you this evening in the hopes I can give you some ideas to combat winter depression.
I myself have suffered from a mild form of Seasonal Affect disorder growing up here mostly in Chicago since a child.
If you are not familiar with SAD, it is a real depressive episode that hits a good percentage of the population during the winter months only and it's mostly caused by a lack of light.

I remember feeling so crushed and hopeless I hired a psychotherapist for some talk therapy and she gave me just a very small dosage of prozac but instantly I began to notice that I was developing some severe allergic reactions to this drug and I found that I was not having sound sleep or vivid dreams so once the drug started affecting my sleep cycles I just decided to fight winter depression with my own methods.

The lack of light can really agitate certain sensitive people especially if you love the Spring and summer as much as I do!  I love taking my dog for long walks in the summer but during the winter with threats of blizzards and snow and ice it really isn't quite the same.   There are no outside cafes in the dead of winter and certainly there are no flowers or birds flying overhead to give you that positive outlook.

Please explore my blog this week www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com because I have so many essays and small articles sharing my personal experiences with tantra and adult websites.

If you are stuck here in Chicago yourself and find you have extra free time to explore Tantra energies with me then I invite you to read my main website at your leisure www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please enjoy my essay and I hope to see you this winter here in Chicago!

Well I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.
So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.
So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.
My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.
I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!
Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.
Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.
You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.
During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.
Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.
I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.
Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.
Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.
If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.
Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!
Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
Muse
Tantra Massage therapist
Sound Healer
Rebirthing breath
Lomi Lomi Massage
Hot stone therapy

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

Tantra Massage and Cuddling Therapy in Los Angeles with Goddess Diana

 
Hello Fellow Native Chicagoans!  This may be my final week here as I am being called to travel to Los Angeles, California this winter season.  As you all know if you are a long standing client of mine; winter is my very least favorite season and so I do return to Chicago each year as summer begins and I tend to leave during the very beginning of our winter.

I am offering a brand new ceremony that might appeal to you before I head West so please call me at (312)339-7707 for my new Cuddle Session priced at only $90 per hour.  If you have been reading and following my blog www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com then you may have been compelled to try one of my tantra massage ceremonies here in Chicago.  I will be heading to Los Angeles, California very soon to offer Tantra Massage, Kundalini Massage, Goddess worship ceremonies and Reiki healings to enjoy the warmer weather and participate in more Tantra workshops that are offered in California.  It is my strong desire to immerse myself in new offerings in Los Angeles, California so that I can continue to grow as a spiritual being and hopefully share all of that good energy with all of you no matter what city I happen to travel to.

If you are a native of Los Angeles, California but you have never tried one of my Tantra Ceremonies please do peruse and enjoy the visual beauty of my personal website www.tantrabutterfly.com because everyone is very unique in how they present Tantra.  I am a formally trained hot stone therapist, Reiki Master, Pranic healer and Tantra Educator and no matter how skilled you are I invite you to schedule your first Tantra Massage Session with me once I arrive in Los Angeles.  This will be the first winter season I spend in California and I wish to meet any couple or private man or woman who needs a bit of healing and Sacred Sensual touch.

My intentions for being in Los Angeles this winter are pretty simple; I wish to escape Chicago's brutal winter and I truly want to manifest some wonderful new opportunities which includes networking with others in my field and potentially growing and expanding as a healer so I can share more with all of you.  I am sure Tantra Massage and Goddess Worship is heavily practiced in California and I will be one of many but remember we each present Tantra so differently from each other and all Goddesses can gift with something special that you never felt before.

Here are the details of my newest Ceremonial Offering that will soon be shared on my main website www.tantrabutterfly.com

Cuddling Ceremonies in Los Angeles, California by Sensual Muse Diana of Tantra Butterfly

I have noticed a new craze going around all over the United States; but honestly this is nothing new to me because I have included the Sacred Spoon or Sacred Cuddle during all my Beginners Tantra sessions and I personally love to cuddle everyone who comes to see me (even if they did not request it).

The reason why cuddling is so essential is the fact that it enhances your Creativity and I work with so many Creative people which include film directors, writers, educators, musicians and independent business owners who all have one thing in common---they love touch!  Touch and cuddling stimulates your mind and helps increase your levels of oxytocin which prevents heart disease, ulcers and chronic illness.  Cuddling helps clear the cobwebs from your mind and each time I meet a new guest I love to simply spoon and breathe quietly together during at least a quarter of the time we spend together during any of my Tantra Ceremonies to help instill trust and complete surrender.

I have spent three years traveling everywhere in the United States and I always seem to come back home here in Chicago to the Midwest because I grew up here all my life and miss many of my clients from 20 years ago.  Now I am going to be heading to Los Angeles, California to meet new people and hopefully to attend workshops in my field and maybe a few cuddle parties which are very popular now in California and all over the United States.

It is becoming the new "hot trend" to become a licensed cuddler and so now I wish to provide this essential healing service to men and women who need to be held sacred and who are touch starved.  Maybe you are getting over the illness of a loved one and you are their primary care taker so now you feel depleted yourself.  Cuddling will fill your cup and help you feel connected to your body so that you are being given something back.  I can help you if you suffer from Chronic fatigue syndrome or depression simply by spooning you for an hour or more and using my reiki hands to cleanse your chakras and help you release negative emotions that are holding you back from being abundant and positive about life.

The long term effects of a good cuddle are numerous but here are just a few benefits you will receive from the Conscious cuddle:

Cuddling releases oxytocin a chemical that is produced in your brain that keeps you feeling satiated!
Cuddling boosts your immune system preventing you from acquiring colds or chronic illness.
Cuddling relieves pain and gives you a brighter outlook so you can tackle stress with gracefulness.
Cuddling helps deepen your relationships whether they are romantic interludes or pure platonic friendships.
Cuddling can lead to more bonding and intimacy between you and your partner.
Cuddling helps women bond in a group setting and trust their partner more.
Cuddling reduces social anxiety and makes you feel confident about yourself giving you a good dose of self esteem.

Now that you know of all the benefits of my Sacred Embrace I welcome you to spoon with me for a full hour of cuddling!  I am a naturally cuddly person and I am very confident about my body so I welcome all body types because there is no need for you to feel self conscious or fearful especially around someone as natural and bohemian as me!  I have been surrounded by people since my early twenties and I truly enjoy hugging everyone I meet so you will feel my genuine ease and hopefully this will help you to reach out to more people for a huge huge or cuddle when ever you need one.  You might even decide to throw a cuddle party yourself after working with me for a few sessions.

During our time together we can engage in some quiet breathing exercises or you can open up to me about something that is pestering you and preventing you from going to the next step.  I am highly intuitive and sometimes I am able to draw out something inside of you that needs to come out.  I am also a Reiki Master and during our Sacred Cuddle you will feel a sense of true relief and hopefully you will be more aligned at the end of our shared cuddle.

My fees per each hour are $90 and during our cuddle you can also ask for additional Reiki if you are suffering from heartbreak or physical pain such as a backache, sprain or headache because Reiki is a very subtle, warm form of energetic healing that helps your body heal by itself on its own time frame.

During our Cuddle session in Los Angeles, California we will both wear either pajamas or comfortable clothing such as yoga outfits.  If you feel most comfortable in a fluffy costume or footie pajamas then bring those items with you because we will be "cuddling" and "snuggling" but we will be wearing clothing and we will not be "molesting" one another.  During my cuddling session the main goal is to make you feel safe and held sacred and there are boundaries so this will not be a hot, steamy, sexual interlude this is more about getting you to feel loved in a very warm, platonic healing way that is akin to complete unconditional love.  I need for you to feel completely safe and I will not be inviting you to "grope"  my body nor will I be "groping" your body in a sexually charged way.  I have Tantra Massage Ceremonies that are listed on my site that are more geared towards mutual touch and Goddess Worship but my Sacred Cuddle Ceremony in Los Angeles, California and Chicago are purely Sacred HUGS and spooning.

Let me Create more Sacred Touch in your life and get your body flowing with positive CHI!  Contact me directly on my mobile phone for questions regarding my Cuddle Ceremonies in Chicago and California (312) 339-7707

Chicagoans Please see me one last time before I head to California.  I will truly miss all of you and I thank all of you with trusting me with your sacred energy.  If you are going to be visiting Los Angeles, California for the winter season I would love to reconnect with you once I am there!

Monday, November 28, 2016

Tantra Massage to Help Boost healthy levels of Oxytocin in your body

 
Happy Holidays and I do hope everyone here had a busy and uplifting Thanksgiving. I spent most of the time enjoying it with my two loving pets, creating Sacred Space for a few special people and just enjoying everything Chicago has to offer like the International Film festival and some great art.

I am available for couples sessions, full day tantra retreats for singles and private workshops for your tiny group of friends. If you have been seeking healing touch in Chicago my focus is essential oil blends to enhance relaxation, reflexology upon request, Tantra Massage and deep tissue sports massage to get you feeling better about life.

My sessions are always uniquely yours meaning I tune into your body and we co create a special session or it can be more structured if you want to learn more about how your Chakras work and I can help you open each Chakra with focus,  breath work, meditation and concentrated touch if you feel like one of your energy centers is stuck.

Tantra is a fully integrated journey of all your senses and helps your body produce healthy levels of oxytocin which is a hormone your pituitary gland releases giving you a feeling of love and connection after receiving gentle and intimate touch. It is a love hormone activated after cuddling, and sensual activation.

Oxytocin has an anti anxiety effect upon our body and mind helping you increase your openness for romantic union and allowing you to become more intuitively aware of your needs and your partner's needs. In other words your awareness and empathy will increase and you will be more willing to open up to touch so if you have been partnerless for an extended amount of time Tantra will open up your blocked pathways of bliss and help you reconnect to your sensual feelings.

Oxytocin also protects your intestinal lining from damage and with continued sessions in Tantra you will notice a huge improvement in your third chakra which rules your digestive tract. If you suffer from stomach pain for instance and your are not receiving enough positive and healing touch Tantra Massage will increase your doses of Oxytocin and help heal your gut lining so the mental and physical affects work together to help promote wellness and self healing in your emotional and physical body.

Visit my website www.tantrabutterfly.com for a list of complete services I have to offer.  I have a very flexible schedule and we can prepare a full day, half day of self healing or a couple of hours together to help you feel more loved and aligned for the Holidays!

I also offer my longer sessions at  a fair, discounted rate for serious students of Tantra Massage.  I want everyone to be able to afford to work on this Sacred Path of self discovery and self healing.  I work with all budgets just be honest about what you can afford and what your goals are.

Contact me today for a Free phone consultation.
Goddess Diana of www.tantrabutterfly.com
(312) 339-7707
Sensual Muse
Tantra Practitioner
Couples Tantra Coach
Reiki Master
Experienced Massage Bodyworker
Licensed in Hot stone Massage & Lomi Lomi
Hypnotherapist
Aromatherapist

Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Enjoy a Full Day Tantra Retreat with Goddess Diana this summer in Chicago 2016

 
Are you planning something special this summer with your lover?  Do you wish to spend several hours escaping your normal reality and immersing yourself in alternative healing?
I invite you to explore your sensual side this summer in Chicago as a couple or completely by yourself.  I provide a safe, comforting environment where you can let your guard down and learn the basics of chakra balancing, tantra massage and couples tantra here in Chicago.

Many people this past summer have opted to choose learning tantra in longer increments of time and they are seeing immediate results that last for days and weeks.  I can offer you a half day journey of tantra massage in Chicago where we will learn proper breath control and some rudimentary chanting of the bija mantras.  I playfully teach you how to open up your chakra bodies using chants that activate you so you can feel empowered throughout our Tantra Ceremony here in the city of Chicago.

A small intro to the bija mantras will be explored and you will sing with me simple one-syllable sounds called seed sounds that help you feel tingling during our ceremony.  In order for me to help you arouse your erogenous zones we make use of these simple seed sounds which tunes and tones your body with resonance bringing you fully back into your physical body.  The purpose of our chakra chants is to keep you here in the moment with me and hopefully make you strum with energy and maybe giggle a little too.  Our goal is to keep you in a trance form of mind and bring you into states of greater psychic awareness.  The end result of our shared singing of these seed sounds is laughter, a tingling sensation and a state of satiation and mindfulness.

A Mantra is a string of sounds or words that create a sense of transcendence.  You will transform your body through sound healing and each muscle and cell of your body will be elevated and uplifted as we explore the seed sounds together.  There will be moments as I touch you that I will encourage you to take slow, deep, soothing breaths into all of your chakra bodies and then as you exhale you will utter a sound or a bija mantra.    Each chakra or vortex of energy will open with a corresponding seed sound so as we sing together you will feel heat and a great surge of energy connecting from your toes to the top of your skull or crown chakra.   There will be times I will just allow you to relax completely and I will bathe your body with these healing sounds.  Most people feel a genuine vibration or "echo" resonating in their physical body while I perform these sounds.  I will have you relax and breathe deeply into your chakra system while I chant the seed sounds LAM, VAM, RAM, YAM, HAM, OM, OM repetitively into your energetic bodies.  Eventually you will have enough stamina to recite all six of these sounds all in one long breath with enough practice and patience.

During my full day retreats we will meet at a spa space in Chicago where we can take time to connect, help you meet your goals and fully digest all the energy centers that help enable you to feel more connected to your own power source.  I will teach you reiki, tantra massage, tantra yoga, kundalini yoga and I will infuse our session with pure organic essential oils and trigger point massage.  Each step of activation leads to a greater understanding of this organic process of Tantra bliss.  You will even have a chance to learn about activating the female body as I teach you the subtleties of yoni healing during my longer sessions.

Join me this summer in Chicago for single day retreats, weekend retreats, couples Tantra massage, Yoni empowerment, Reiki and Sensual exploration.  You can read my testimonials here on my site www.tantrabutterfly.com  by clicking onto my testimonials index page.

I hope to hear from you soon!  Help me plan a special day or weekend for you as a couple or just as a decadent and healing escape for yourself!

Goddess Diana
(312) 339-7707

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Wednesday, June 10, 2015

My Tantra Account has been deactivated by Lisa from the Eros guide Good Going EROS GUIDE !!!

Dear Audience,
A few months ago I noticed a drastic change on the Eros Guide and mostly the quality of calls I received were now a lot more inappropriate due to a change of template style and a new woman that had been assigned to my Eros Account. 
A new marketing representative by the name of Lisa had been assigned to go over my account and she would literally call me multiple times during my work week mentioning the Premier Services Section and how it would benefit my Ad campaign if I chose to offer ILLEGAL SERVICES namely Vip Escort and GFE.  Lisa would ask me if I was satisfied with the changes the Eros guide was making and she invited me to share commentary.  When I was brutally honest and calmly told her the site was wonderful when they were more streamlined Lisa would get irrationally upset with me and PUNISH me for sharing my viewpoint.
I would always receive a nasty call the next day from one of the Eros guide Representatives whether it was Tim from the Legal department or Stormi who is in charge of marketing and Sales.

They would delete text from my ads which included the word Yoni.  I mean the word YONI based on Sanskrit simply means birthplace or womb.  Yoni is a sacred word and to me Yoni means flower.  The eros guide basically called me up yesterday when I was having a bad day.  Lisa was quite rude to me as I was waiting to visit a doctor and I was in the middle of a medical emergency.  The eros guide should be ashamed of itself.  They now victimize women in my industry and because I chose to use the word YONI Worship which in Tantra means HONORING THE DIVINE FEMININE AND HONORING THE GODDESS IN ALL OF US I have had my account deactivated completely even though I was an advertiser for over 15 years.

The Eros guide now only wishes to promote Cam girls and GFE and VIP Escorts but because I chose to keep my ads pure and only stay within the bounds of True authentic Tantra healing energy work and True Massage related services Lisa chose to harass me for the past 7 months constantly barraging me with inane requests to change certain "words" that she deemed inappropriate or illegal.  They even removed a text that stated that I would be able to train men to sustain full arousal and full body waves of energetic bliss using a technique known as Edge play.  Now everyone that uses the Eros Guide knows Edge play is a word known in the field and is perfectly acceptable and legal with no sexual connotations. 

When I recently looked up the Eros guide online I also noticed they received a number of major complaints from people in my industry who were also very displeased with services rendered from the Eros guide.  If you take the time to look up THE RIP OFF REPORT you will see many providers of healing services similar to mine have been ripped off by the eros guide having paid good money to the Eros guide only to have beautiful text removed and pictures removed from off their site or advertising removed completely even though the advertising was paid for in full.

I suppose I am deeply grateful that after all these years I have been penalized now by the Eros guide because I chose to be true to myself and not wish to become a CAM GIRL or a GFE OR an ESCORT OR shall we say A PIECE OF MEAT.

The Eros guide has changed their advertising tactics and is now appealing to a completely different audience mostly men seeking BDSM or PROSTITUTION RELATED SERVICES.  I won't be sorry if the FEDS choose to shut down the eros guide permanently for insinuating illegal services online so real hard core PORN QUEENS are allowed to post but not real healers.  The energetic vibration of the Eros Guide has now been lowered to a much lower vibration and a much shadier audience of men who are seeking a quick fix.  Everyone knows that GFE means unprotected sex.  The literal term of GFE according to Lisa of the Eros guide means she is going to pretend she is your girlfriend but everyone in the sex industry can google up the catch phrase GFE and understand that literally and technically GFE means french kissing which leads to herpes simplex II,  unprotected sex which means you are not using a condom and GFE also implies oral sex which of course leads to a host of diseases like syphillis not to mention other sexually transmitted diseases. 

If Lisa is implying that someone like me who really wants to promote whole body health is simply not legitimate then I wish to post on my blog for all to read that Tim from the Legal department banned me from every advertising my massage services and my tantra healing ceremonies because I chose not to be part of their VIP ESCORT SECTION.  I once made the mistake of purchasing their VIP program and Lisa harassed me with upgrades trying to get me to purchase premium services, banners and other wasteful services that truly never made my phone ring ever because they have shortened the text on their templates and they have certain words banned on their site so the viewer is completely confused about what is offered.

Today they deactivated my Tantra and Massage account because yesterday during a tape recorded conversation with Lisa I mentioned to her that I am a true tantra teacher.  I love teaching men how to honor and worship the Goddess and that YONI is a perfectly beautiful word to use. I stuck to my guns.  I told her I am not offering sex to any of my clients nor do I wish to offer sexual intercourse but I prefer the sacred art of sustaining my energy and practicing celibacy keeps me emotionally balanced and better able to receive my new guests with a happier frame of mind. 

My experiences with the Eros Guide these past two years has been very combative, humiliating and a true waste of my time, energy and money.  They have constantly changed their template and changed their service to strictly online interaction.  Each time they asked me for feedback I told them the truth and I stated their original template and design brought me the most work from the most desirable group of people.  Now it appears backpages is the new source for anyone to find out about my services.  I even asked other women in my field if they were still receiving calls using the Eros guide and they were quite honest with me and said since Eros has changed its template and standards and changed its content they are lucky receive 3 inquiries a week.  I noticed that most of my calls from people on backpages or google search engines but no longer from the Eros guide.  I even asked clients from New Orleans how they found me and they told me they had never heard of the eros guide.  I asked a client of mine from St. Louis if he even uses the Eros guide and he said he found the women to be a bit overpriced and nasty to him on the phone so he stopped searching for women from the Eros guide since the Quality of women who advertise their has gone down too.

I even notice that AGENCIES posing as independent contractors such as THE KEY NAME penelope Waters is now posing as an independent contract so not only is Eros guide now playing favorites to Agencies they are now excluding small private tantra educators from using their site to promote their legal services.  It appears to me that Lisa is now formally playing favorites and promoting professional agencies, professional GFE's and professional prostitutes on their site and now getting ride of trained massage therapists and trained Tantra educators. 

If you go online and view the women who are currently on the Eros guide they will even show you their TER id's.  Everyone who is a professional hobbyist knows that TER stands for The erotic review.  The erotic review board is a place where hobbyists can rate and review their experiences with a professional porn star and with a GFE or a Prostitute.  I am not prejudiced against the industry but I am stating a fact that because the Eros guide chooses of their own free will to ban someone like me yet promote porn stars who include their TER reviews I am going to assume I no longer fit into the mold that the Eros guide is now leaning towards.

It appears to me that if you are a VIP escort, GFE,  professional BDSM or Madame you are going to be welcomed into their fold and allowed to post your services online for all to see but if you are a trained professional like me with over 16 years of experience with tantra yoga training and massage you might be banned from being included into their new "look." 

I was penalized today by Lisa and Tim from the Legal department of the Eros guide because I was upset that they decided to remove two beautiful sentences delineating Yoni worship.
I am no longer allowed to advertise with the Eros guide because I chose to defend myself and use the word Yoni.

Yours Goddess Diana of
www.tantrabutterfly.com

DEAR READER,
It has come to my attention that the eros guide is now supporting and giving favoritism to illegal advertisers people willing to offer GFE which everyone knows is unprotected sex.  Unprotected sex is not something I ever wish to support nor is healthy for anyone to engage in.  I was dismissed from advertising with the eros guide for using the TERM KNOWN AS YONI WORSHIP.  As most Tantra devotees know pure Yoni worship is a symbolism of complete devotion to the YONI and the true definition of YONI is flower or womb.  The divine Goddess energy that is found within the yoni is brought out through spoken word, loving and sacred touch and intentions.  There is nothing perverted or illegal in using the Term Yoni honoring or yoni worship.  What is considered illegal is using the words VIP ESCORT,  ORAL SEX,  GFE AND PORN STAR EXPERIENCE.  The eros guide now is promoting CAM GIRLS note they use the words COLLEGE GIRLS  on their site,  GFE AND VIP ESCORT so everyone with any common sense understands fully that if you engage in a porn star experience with an eros GUIDE GIRL you are going to be paying for sexual intercourse for that $1000 an hour and up experience.  They even promote sessions on their site with advertising agencies rather than real one on one experiences with a real person.   They have used agencies that blanket their ad name with a person's name but when you meet the person live you are going to be greeted by a woman who was not advertised in the Eros guide picture.  If you notice on the Eros guide there is special section called AUTHENTICATED.  Now if you are AUTHENTICATED you supposedly the woman or man offering those services but if you are not AUTHENTICATED then you might be using someone's pictures that are not yours.

The eros guide is no longer a good value for your money.  Men need to be aware that Agencies are being favorited by the Eros team and the eros guide is intentionally and willfully playing favorites to certain advertisers who choose advertise on their VIP TEMPLATE AND slowly getting rid of legitimate massage therapists with real training and legitimately trained Tantra educators who are trained and licensed to teach tantra yoga and massage.


Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Goddess Worship is the Honoring of your Beloved and the sharing of unconditional love ♡♥

Today I’d love to help people understand the difference between raw, naked, passionate lust and true, intimate, compelling love making. Did you know you can make love to your lover without laying a finger on him or her? Did you know the preparation which leads up to the love making shows more care and concern than engaging in a raw, sexual encounter.
Almost all of us can appreciate that as young teenagers or college age adolescents we all had at least one sensual encounter where raw lust rather than love was involved. I feel that women have more of a tendency to give of themselves when they think they are in love and that women must feel safe before engaging in any sexual activity with someone she has chemical feelings for.
There is a difference between raw, impassioned chemistry and the vulnerability of being in love with someone.
When I work with men on Goddess worship my intention is to hopefully teach them how to use their voice, their eyes, their hands and their gentle intentions in a more loving and sensual way to instill a sense of calm, peacefulness and ease in their lover. No one likes being “seized” or hungrily groped during a love making session.
My true intentions are to help alleviate shyness and awkwardness between a man and is lover by teaching him to be less needy and more natural. Women are very sensitive beings and we love to approached with tenderness and not so much a sense of urgency or neediness. When men are too needy and focus on touch only from a place of desperation and lack then women tend to coil up and retreat back into themselves which will only make a man feel even more vulnerable and misunderstood. If a man is patient enough to listen to his lover’s body and get a sense of her body’s reaction to more gentle touches and strokes then his reward will be her yielding and he will feel her soften and invite more touch to the love making session.
Making love is always an art. When you dine out with someone special you want to take time to listen to your friend and you want to be non rushed. You are there for companionship not necessarily to gobble your food down as greedily and speedily as you can with a sense of urgency and impending doom. This is why men wish to learn tantra yoga and goddess worship.
Goddess worship is not BDSM. Goddess worship is the art of being open enough to listen and send loving vibes into the arena of sensual foreplay. You want to learn how to approach your lover with true compassion and not so much a motive or agenda. You are not there to “get her off” or fulfill your lustful needs. You are there to support her as a real woman who has vulnerability. You want to send her soothing sounds and make sure she feels safe in your presence. You should also be prepared for her to lay out a set of strong boundaries for you and if you hear her say she needs some time out from sensual play then you need to honor her wishes and let her feel safe enough to tell you what she needs more of or less of.
The session is about her and not you so please stand back and do not let your “ego” get in the way. Goddess Worship is an honoring of her divine feminine and her gentleness. You want to give her time to expand her heart towards you so that she feels safe and more receptive to your touch. Do not be impatient for instant results and do not make her feel self conscious if she can not have an orgasm in front of you. Orgasm is not the goal of a Goddess worship healing; orgasm is a delightful surprise that happens quite by accident with the main focus being her complete healing and deep feeling of being loved and honored by you.
Lust does not enter as part of the Goddess worship ceremony. Lust is a reaction to pure sexual attraction but if you are a true healer you do not have to be sexually attracted to your partner to heal her. You are there to make her feel safe and more feminine. You are the compassionate soul who loves her without conditions or ulterior motives.
The heart can become more guarded through years of repeated abuse either during the formative years of childhood or young adulthood dependent upon our encounters with the same sex and the opposite sex. Goddess worship helps heal those old wounds and traumas and brings two compassionate lovers closer together. You can share and trust more if you learn the basic healing techniques of Goddess worship and tantra massage.
I love working with men who have had no prior experience in tantra or Goddess worship. It is harder for me to teach men how to touch with love if they are visiting me for the wrong reasons. Tantra will heal you whether you decided to visit a goddess out of pure lust or whether you felt the need to be pampered for a few hours. There is no getting around the healing and you will find out you learn more about patience, empathy and unconditional love if you let yourself go and try to learn something new rather than follow the same old recipe.
Goddess Diana
Muse,
Confidante,
Sacred Sensual Healer
Tantra Yoga Educator
Massage Therapist
Counselor
People walk many paths. If you are a genuine light worker and you find yourself encountering obstacles or belligerent people just know YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT PATH AND YOU SERVE A PURPOSE.... Never allow anyone to undermine your happiness. We will always encounter people of different belief systems. Learn to grow a thick shell but never allow your open heart to grow jaded. When others are truly Dark and do not wish to see you progress they are unhappy with their lifestyle and you have nothing to do with their path. If you can wake up each day knowing you have filled someone's cup then walk away from conflicts and people who are mentally ill. There are many on this planet who think a certain way. They do not have generous hearts and open souls. They might even challenge you and wear you down emotionally if you allow them to do. Break all ties off with anyone who can not honor you. We all have beautiful gifts to share and the Path of the true lighwalker is to challenge belief systems that no longer serve us. Release your anger and let go of other people's view points. They can not harm you. If you can follow your path with ease and follow your path during times of conflicts you can face any challenge and anyone who carries negative energies towards you. Tantra teaches us to be more tolerant of other people's belief systems and we learn to honor our need for boundaries so we can strengthen our core. If you know the path you are creating for yourself is sacred for you then never allow anyone who is emotionally ill or chemically unsound to affect you light. Tantra is about releasing old, outdated belief systems. If you can honor yourself then you can honor the people around you without absorbing their stories or inner turmoil. We can only do so much to heal the world. Distance yourself from anyone who would prefer to harm you rather than heal you. Do not judge but do not absorb anyone's toxic energies. Honor yourself by creating a safe distance from anything or anyone that does not love you for who you already are.

Saturday, March 14, 2015

So what exactly happens during a Tantra Ceremony for beginners?

First of all I do follow a "recipe" and I do not both at the same time.  If you over think what may or may not happen during your first tantra session you may not full understand that there is no thinking involved but there is an awakening of all latent energy and trapped trauma.  I find that it's best to follow a simply process of connection, breathing, mutual touch and open communication. 

I encourage everyone for the first time to ask me as many questions as they wish.  You can ask me why we are singing together or why we are breathing so deeply.  Most people don't realize that 60% of our "panic" attacks are caused by breathing improperly and breathing too shallow.  Shallow breathing translates into muscular pain in your diaphragm and when you connect with me I will make sure to slow down your breathing pace for every touch you receive.

The breathing is the key ingredient and if you start this practice every day it will be a new practice that gradually becomes easier so you will naturally breathe deeply every time you receive a tantra healing or a sports massage.  Breathing facilitates complete oxygenation of your body's cells and when you learn to breathe deeply you will feel warmth and tingling everywhere in your body.  I have seen people shake a bit and this is trapped energies that have remained stagnant but during a tantra yoga session your energy is free to roam everywhere and you will literally feel a vibratory "tingle" that will permeate from the tips of your toes through the roof of your mouth!

Don't over stress about what will or what will not happen.  What ever happens is your unique response to your body's ability to process kundalini energy.  Use your sexual energy to regain your sense of grounding.  Use your energy to activate all muscles and chakras in your physical and spiritual body by breathing and keeping your mind free of clutter.

Talk therapy can also be a part of our shared time together.  It's only natural and healing for you to release pent up feelings and I encourage beginners to share anything that should crop up as your memories are triggered.

Goddess Diana
www.tantrabutterfly.com