Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Join Goddess Diana in Chicago for Tantra Benefits that will Heal your Being

Tantra is a skill and a form of meditation that has been practiced by Tibetan monks, Buddhists and Hindus for well over 9000 years. We can trace Tantra yoga’s origins to the mountains of India where religious sects practiced sexual, sacred ceremonies called Pujas for a specific purpose such as planting seeds of abundance for a good harvest or simply leading one to a path of higher enlightenment by using sexual energy as a magical component to awaken the third eye via Kundalini Shakti.
Today people are intrigued enough to meet with a Tantra provider to see if there is anything Tantra can do for their emotional frame of mind or simply out of complete curiosity.
Today’s culture embraces a more pragmatic ritual where we combine a full body hands on healing rather than a random puja ritual of meeting in a sacred circle to team up with a complete stranger for a sacred sexual act to consecrate the land.
Modern Tantrikas invest their time in you– teaching you the right way to breathe fully and connect with you so that you are fully in the moment and not distancing yourself or detaching from your own body.
Modern tantra yoga involves full body Tantra Massage, belly breathing, eye gazing, mutual touch, mutual connection, and opening up your boundaries during peaks of pleasure. All your erogenous zones are awakened playfully and are used to tenderly heal your old emotional wounds to prepare you for sacred space.
You will learn to give up your need to control as your tantra guide stimulates your sexual energies with compassion and slow, soothing strokes. This is not about an end result nor is tantra about obtaining an orgasm.
Tantra helps you use your own sexual energy as medicine for your body. If you have a hard time falling asleep at nights your tantra session will help get you in a more relaxed frame of composure; but if you are too tired all the time tantra can also give you that extra zing for life and boost your energy level because Tantra can either be a stimulant for those who are too tired to function or it can act as a sleeping aide for insomniacs. Your body will determine what it needs from the tantra session so what ever does happen will be for the best.
Here are some wonderful reasons to try a tantra session for the first time.
1. Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.
2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.
3. Emotional Healing
One’s journey into Tantra involves emotional healing and the pealing of all your layers so that you evolve and become more open and honest with yourself. Tantra is designed to help you receive love with a more open heart.
As I teach you breathing techniques your chest cavity is more open and this leads to emotional healing and more heart openness. You will deal more honestly with yourself rather than burying your feelings.
You might find yourself crying or laughing during your state of openness and all this leads to greater compassion for yourself and others. Your emotional blocks are skillfully addressed during an extended ceremony as you let down your shields and learn the art of self acceptance.
When you learn how to receive pleasure and unconditional love your self esteem grows and your relationship with others is enhanced and improved.
4. Experience PEACEFULNESS AND Pleasure
Peace of mind is achieved during our shared Tantra ceremony. We will both experience mutual pleasure because I love making sure you are enjoying yourself and getting lost in the moment which brings me pleasure because I love making people feel good.
Your pleasure will come in many forms which includes complete muscle relaxation, full body waves of bliss, emotional restoration and the physical release that comes from having a spiritually infused orgasm which is called Kundalini Shakti activation and leads to even more bliss.
5. Tantra leads to Self awareness
The true goal of any tantra student is to attain Nirvana in a very natural and non invasive way. As I teach you how to breathe deeply into your Chakra bodies I may have you visualize that your pineal gland is getting brighter and clearer and this helps activate your Crown chakra leading you to a greater connection to Source.
As you gain trust in your ability to connect to a higher Power or your own inner power you begin to trust in your inner voice and inner intuition. There will be no more room in your life for self doubt; you will simply trust yourself each time you schedule a tantra session. Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to breathe and simply “Be” the more you will begin to have faith in yourself rather than relying on others to guide you.
6. Your Quality of Life Improves
Tantra yoga teaches you self discipline because we do everything slowly together and I teach you how to curb your impulses and your natural inclination to get to the “good stuff” first.
Whether you decide you wish to hire me to focus on your pleasure only or you wish to learn the art of sexual orgasm I am here to teach you how to touch with intention and with slowness so that you are not rushing into anything for the sole purpose of an end goal.
There is no end result we need to achieve. Our shared time is considered sacred and life in itself is an act of celebration and we make mistakes and learn along the way. Its okay to make mistakes and repeat sessions for the sake of learning how to slow down.
We focus on the present moment and we are not worried about where you were or what you need to become. We share a moment in time during our tantra ceremony and I teach you how to expand time so that you can no longer feel the passage of time and space.
Men who are concerned about ejaculatory control or premature ejaculation will find benefits to spending time practicing tantra massage and tantra breath with me. I will make sure you are not worried about an end result. You will feel more composed and secure so that your quality of life will improve as you keep yourself focused on the now.
8. Acquire Abundance
So you are probably wondering how abundance comes into play with our sacred ceremony. After all you are spending good money to see me and you wish to invest your money into a positive experience that will potentially benefit you emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially.
There is a special sacred ceremony we can partake in together during your session and it is called a Muladhara Chakra awakening or prostate activation.
Prostate massage is a gateway to help you establish a better sense of trust and self awareness. You learn to let go as I gently penetrate you with my finger and send you healing but powerful energy that will help awaken your kundalini energy and bring you the abundance you crave.
I personally find that men who are by nature very secure in their ability to make a good living love prostate massage the most and they are completely open and trusting feeling waves of insurmountable pleasures as I activate their prostate.
It is interesting to note that men who have a hard time giving up “control” and men who do not feel completely secure have a tendency to tighten up and feel nervous as I attempt to activate their kundalini energy this way.
Everything takes practice and patience and if the thought of acquiring abundance intrigues and excites you; but the thought of being penetrated repulses and alarms you then we can take slow steps getting you to the point where you trust me enough to stimulate you in this way.
I can assure you that if this idea appeals to you but you are too afraid you can let me know your boundaries ahead of time and I can still activate your prostate from the outside without fully penetrating your anal area.
Energy is energy and intentions can carry energy just as skillfully as a more firm touch or caress.
9. Combat Stress and Fatigue
Tantra massage is a gateway to helping you combat fatigue and stress due to adrenal fatigue failure.
During my sessions I place a very strong emphasis on your core which is your third Chakra or solar plexus. Your solar plexus is your mini solar system and helps you with your intuition as it helps you with body signals.
I am sure you know what it’s like to feel butterflies in your stomach right before a performance, a speech or before meeting with someone you have deep feelings for.
Your stomach carries a great deal of stress and so I will be massaging your tummy during our session so you can feel safe and loved. This massage aides your digestive system and encourages your body to produce less cortisol so you are not in a constant state of fight or flight.
If you see me on a regular basis I can assure you you will be on your way to greater rest, less stress, and you can start losing weight with ease.
During your belly massage I will encourage you to take deep, slow belly breaths and all this deep breathing will improve your energy levels and get oxygen flowing to your brain and other organs decreasing your fatigue and helping you to get to a prolonged feeling of ecstasy when we address your erogenous zones.
Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantra massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantra focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress levels as a result of your tantra ceremony.
In summary if you want to gift yourself the pleasure of unsurpassed sensuality, dedicated deep tissue massage and the ability to withhold and sustain heightened sensory awareness then call me immediately and schedule an extended tantra ceremony with me soon!
Please read my personal website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of ceremonial options then call me directly 312-339-7707
Goddess Diana
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*
Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707
The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:
I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Monday, May 8, 2017

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Monday, April 17, 2017

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.
And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.
I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.
Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.
I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.
In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.
Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.
I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.
Here is the copied text:
I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:
Hello Mary,
I hope this email finds you well.
We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.
We wish you well with any future endeavors.
Regards,
Eli
Customer Service Representative
WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH
I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.
Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?
They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

So here it comes back to me now and my personal thoughts on how the Eros guide is treating all of us online.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the Eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope the Eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.
I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.
My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707

Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Couples Tantra and Tantra Massage in Schaumburg by Goddess Diana

Hello All lovers of touch, sensuality and bliss!  Goddess Diana is currently visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and is available for small workshops, private couples coaching, reiki instruction, beginners tantra for singles and all types of energetic healings.  I take my work very seriously and I would be delighted to be your first tantra teacher here in Illinois.

Have you been tempted to try tantra but just never could fit the time in your busy day to come to downtown Chicago or the West Loop? This week I am visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and offering my Tantra Massage therapies to all residents and visitors of this suburb.
If you a couple seeking beginners couple therapy feel free to visit my main website for detailed information at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly with additional questions at 312-339-7707.
I welcome couples, and offer private one on one healing therapies to all of the Chicago land area and nearby suburbs. During couples tantra you will learn how to touch your partner with healing and loving intentions followed by a few masterful techniques to help you connect better and delay and hold off on orgasm.
You will be confident, relaxed and enlightened after just one session. My recommendation for all beginners of couples tantra here in Schaumburg is to allot enough time at least 3 to four hours to understand the very basics of tantra breath, reiki, and tantra postures so you can practice on each other after our session is over.
You are going to be actively involved and will have a chance to become receiver and giver. You will learn the art of the Conscious Cuddle and learn how to communicate better with your lover and establish healthy boundaries.
All couples Tantra Massage in Schaumburg. Illinois are to be held in your private home, condo, apartment or hotel only. I feel that couples should have that yummy energy stay with them and you will feel more safe and relaxed in your own home environment.
Private sessions for single men or women are conducted in your space or mine and again longer sessions for beginners tantra are always encouraged for beginners of Tantra yoga in Schaumburg.
I can’t wait to meet you
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Couples Tantra Educator
Certified Licensed Tantra Coach
Reiki Master
Muse
Alternative healing bodyworker
Cuddle therapist


Monday, March 13, 2017

Couples Tantra Massage and Tantra Education in Chicago by Goddess Diana

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.
You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breathe
into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.
I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.
I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.
My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist


Friday, February 17, 2017

Reiki healing and Tantra Activations are completely enmeshed together

I receive so many calls lately from new people who do not have a clue what Tantra is.  Honestly it's not my responsibility to give a full account of any definition of Tantra yoga or Tantra massage.  It's not my intention to be a free source of information for anyone contacting me by phone but I truly enjoy sharing information and enlightening strangers via the written word because I love writing as much as I love offering Tantra Ceremonies and giving Reiki healings.

I have a blog on wordpress.com and you can find it here at www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com  or you can have a look at my main website here at www.tantrabutterfly.com.  The average person these days normally does not have the time commitment or patience to read the contents of my blog or my personal website but it's not my responsibility to educate anyone over the phone unless of course they treat me like a professional and pay for a phone consultation.

The best way to understand Tantra and energy work in general is to understand that we are energy beings and we have energy stations in our body which connect to each other.  If one part of our energy mechanism is malfunctioning it affects how our energy centers communicate and work with each other.  If one energy power station is completely down or shut off then energy is not free to travel and the energies get clogged or "backed up" so that we feel a constriction and lack of flow.

During a reiki session your energy is gently opened up and I am not giving or taking energy from you but I am present with you and allowing your energy to shift and slowly open up.  You will feel tingling and warm sensations and a feeling of calm.  You might feel more energy or less energy depending upon what your body intuitively requires at the time of the healing.  Tantra also focuses on all your energy centers or Chakra bodies.  Tantra's goal is to help get you activated and fully charged up again connecting all your power centers from your third eye to your solar plexus or stomach area and your root chakra and sexual centers.  You are not cut off from you sexual energy you are always in a state of complete flow unless you choose to ignore your sexual energy or shut off your connection to joy and bliss.  In the same aspect you can't simply go around with an over charged sexual energy or appetite but ignore your heart chakra and your need for connection and love. 

Tantra rebuilds your capacity to feel more alive, refreshed, balanced, and loved.  You can feel completely centered during our Tantra ceremony and I will always be encouraging you to come back to your body through the gentle breathing exercises we share together.  I take my time with you and use a great deal of balanced reiki energy,  essential oils, sound healing and breath to keep you in alignment.  You will see firsthand what energy work can do for your state of mind and well being.
Tantra can not be understood through reading text books or chatting on the phone.  Tantra is best understood when you actively participate and allow me to help you engage and awaken all your senses and energy centers through the gift of intentional touch.

If you have not read my site yet please do so now...  www.tantrabutterfly.com.  When you are ready for your first session call me directly and I'd love to help you meet your goals and achieve better balance.

Thursday, February 16, 2017

Tantra Bathing Ceremonies enhance your potential to be more open

There is something very special about connecting with your loved one in a bath filled with essential oils, salts and colors.  Before receiving sacred touch take the time to connect with your partner in a bath for two.  Use some very playful items such as bubble bath or maybe food coloring so you can include some color therapy to enhance and awaken your chakras.

Be creative and silly when you engage in a bathing ceremony.  Don't be afraid to throw some crystals in the water like tumbled semi precious stones or tumbled quartz.  Have the lights dimmed and surround your bathtub with tea lights and flower petals if you wish. 

Always use scents in your bath that are pleasing to both of you whether it's an inviting vanilla,  a refreshing lime or lemon or an invigorating hint of peppermint.  Always use a bit of caution when using anything strong like peppermint or wintergreen because these two essential oils can be a bit aggravating to your tender skin so a little is just perfect maybe a drop or two.  You can be more generous with lavender essential oil and use about 10 drops without irritating your skin.  The key here is a little aromatherapy helps soothe your mind but too much will irritate your skin and potentially burn.

Now that you have the music playing and the candles burning just gaze into your lover's eyes and make humming noises together.  Experiment with pitch, tone and sound.  Try and sing in harmony and share your energy by tuning your voices together and breathing slowly but deeply.

When you connect in the Sacred Bath Ceremony try not to rush the breathing and just let your mind go.  You will join hands together and try to align all your major Chakra centers with each other by holding your hands over your partners throat,  lungs and stomach.  Take your time exploring one another slowly and with compassion.

All couples are encouraged to join me for any of my Sacred Bath Ceremonies so please view my main website www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly at 312-339-7707.  I love working with couples but if you do not have a Sacred other and wish to join me for a Tantra Bath Ceremony in Chicago or any other city please reach out to me soon and I will teach you how to discover and revitalize your sensual energy centers in a creative and soothing sacred space.