Monday, April 17, 2017

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.
And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.
I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.
Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.
I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.
In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.
Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.
I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.
Here is the copied text:
I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:
Hello Mary,
I hope this email finds you well.
We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.
We wish you well with any future endeavors.
Regards,
Eli
Customer Service Representative
WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH
I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.
Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?
They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

So here it comes back to me now and my personal thoughts on how the Eros guide is treating all of us online.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the Eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope the Eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.
I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.
My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707

Wednesday, April 5, 2017

Couples Tantra and Tantra Massage in Schaumburg by Goddess Diana

Hello All lovers of touch, sensuality and bliss!  Goddess Diana is currently visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and is available for small workshops, private couples coaching, reiki instruction, beginners tantra for singles and all types of energetic healings.  I take my work very seriously and I would be delighted to be your first tantra teacher here in Illinois.

Have you been tempted to try tantra but just never could fit the time in your busy day to come to downtown Chicago or the West Loop? This week I am visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and offering my Tantra Massage therapies to all residents and visitors of this suburb.
If you a couple seeking beginners couple therapy feel free to visit my main website for detailed information at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly with additional questions at 312-339-7707.
I welcome couples, and offer private one on one healing therapies to all of the Chicago land area and nearby suburbs. During couples tantra you will learn how to touch your partner with healing and loving intentions followed by a few masterful techniques to help you connect better and delay and hold off on orgasm.
You will be confident, relaxed and enlightened after just one session. My recommendation for all beginners of couples tantra here in Schaumburg is to allot enough time at least 3 to four hours to understand the very basics of tantra breath, reiki, and tantra postures so you can practice on each other after our session is over.
You are going to be actively involved and will have a chance to become receiver and giver. You will learn the art of the Conscious Cuddle and learn how to communicate better with your lover and establish healthy boundaries.
All couples Tantra Massage in Schaumburg. Illinois are to be held in your private home, condo, apartment or hotel only. I feel that couples should have that yummy energy stay with them and you will feel more safe and relaxed in your own home environment.
Private sessions for single men or women are conducted in your space or mine and again longer sessions for beginners tantra are always encouraged for beginners of Tantra yoga in Schaumburg.
I can’t wait to meet you
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Couples Tantra Educator
Certified Licensed Tantra Coach
Reiki Master
Muse
Alternative healing bodyworker
Cuddle therapist


Monday, March 13, 2017

Couples Tantra Massage and Tantra Education in Chicago by Goddess Diana

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.
You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breathe
into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.
I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.
I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.
My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist


Friday, February 17, 2017

Reiki healing and Tantra Activations are completely enmeshed together

I receive so many calls lately from new people who do not have a clue what Tantra is.  Honestly it's not my responsibility to give a full account of any definition of Tantra yoga or Tantra massage.  It's not my intention to be a free source of information for anyone contacting me by phone but I truly enjoy sharing information and enlightening strangers via the written word because I love writing as much as I love offering Tantra Ceremonies and giving Reiki healings.

I have a blog on wordpress.com and you can find it here at www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com  or you can have a look at my main website here at www.tantrabutterfly.com.  The average person these days normally does not have the time commitment or patience to read the contents of my blog or my personal website but it's not my responsibility to educate anyone over the phone unless of course they treat me like a professional and pay for a phone consultation.

The best way to understand Tantra and energy work in general is to understand that we are energy beings and we have energy stations in our body which connect to each other.  If one part of our energy mechanism is malfunctioning it affects how our energy centers communicate and work with each other.  If one energy power station is completely down or shut off then energy is not free to travel and the energies get clogged or "backed up" so that we feel a constriction and lack of flow.

During a reiki session your energy is gently opened up and I am not giving or taking energy from you but I am present with you and allowing your energy to shift and slowly open up.  You will feel tingling and warm sensations and a feeling of calm.  You might feel more energy or less energy depending upon what your body intuitively requires at the time of the healing.  Tantra also focuses on all your energy centers or Chakra bodies.  Tantra's goal is to help get you activated and fully charged up again connecting all your power centers from your third eye to your solar plexus or stomach area and your root chakra and sexual centers.  You are not cut off from you sexual energy you are always in a state of complete flow unless you choose to ignore your sexual energy or shut off your connection to joy and bliss.  In the same aspect you can't simply go around with an over charged sexual energy or appetite but ignore your heart chakra and your need for connection and love. 

Tantra rebuilds your capacity to feel more alive, refreshed, balanced, and loved.  You can feel completely centered during our Tantra ceremony and I will always be encouraging you to come back to your body through the gentle breathing exercises we share together.  I take my time with you and use a great deal of balanced reiki energy,  essential oils, sound healing and breath to keep you in alignment.  You will see firsthand what energy work can do for your state of mind and well being.
Tantra can not be understood through reading text books or chatting on the phone.  Tantra is best understood when you actively participate and allow me to help you engage and awaken all your senses and energy centers through the gift of intentional touch.

If you have not read my site yet please do so now...  www.tantrabutterfly.com.  When you are ready for your first session call me directly and I'd love to help you meet your goals and achieve better balance.

Thursday, February 16, 2017

Tantra Bathing Ceremonies enhance your potential to be more open

There is something very special about connecting with your loved one in a bath filled with essential oils, salts and colors.  Before receiving sacred touch take the time to connect with your partner in a bath for two.  Use some very playful items such as bubble bath or maybe food coloring so you can include some color therapy to enhance and awaken your chakras.

Be creative and silly when you engage in a bathing ceremony.  Don't be afraid to throw some crystals in the water like tumbled semi precious stones or tumbled quartz.  Have the lights dimmed and surround your bathtub with tea lights and flower petals if you wish. 

Always use scents in your bath that are pleasing to both of you whether it's an inviting vanilla,  a refreshing lime or lemon or an invigorating hint of peppermint.  Always use a bit of caution when using anything strong like peppermint or wintergreen because these two essential oils can be a bit aggravating to your tender skin so a little is just perfect maybe a drop or two.  You can be more generous with lavender essential oil and use about 10 drops without irritating your skin.  The key here is a little aromatherapy helps soothe your mind but too much will irritate your skin and potentially burn.

Now that you have the music playing and the candles burning just gaze into your lover's eyes and make humming noises together.  Experiment with pitch, tone and sound.  Try and sing in harmony and share your energy by tuning your voices together and breathing slowly but deeply.

When you connect in the Sacred Bath Ceremony try not to rush the breathing and just let your mind go.  You will join hands together and try to align all your major Chakra centers with each other by holding your hands over your partners throat,  lungs and stomach.  Take your time exploring one another slowly and with compassion.

All couples are encouraged to join me for any of my Sacred Bath Ceremonies so please view my main website www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly at 312-339-7707.  I love working with couples but if you do not have a Sacred other and wish to join me for a Tantra Bath Ceremony in Chicago or any other city please reach out to me soon and I will teach you how to discover and revitalize your sensual energy centers in a creative and soothing sacred space.

Friday, January 27, 2017

I invite you to visit with me for Cuddling Sessions and Sensual Surrender

Hello everyone here in Chicago it's me Goddess Diana of www.tantrabutterfly.com and I just felt like reaching out today and writing.  Writing has always been a fun past time for me and I love to convey my feelings here by freely expressing myself and sharing what I know about Tantra, connection and healing touch.
I am on various forms of social media these days so if you are not already familiar please visit my public page on facebook here https://www.facebook.com/tantrabutterfly/  and of course feel free to enjoy blog www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com.

I am sharing with you today the importance of sacred touch and I am very skilled with sharing sacred space and making every space a healing and safe circle whether it's in your home, my space, a hotel room or any dwelling where you feel safe, happy and supported.

My intentions are to help you grow and help you when you feel a bit emptied out inside or without a love interest of your own.  I have worked with married men who know that something is very wrong in their marriage and in the meantime they are seeking some empathy and a cuddle.  There is nothing morally wrong with needing touch and companionship.

Most of the men who do contact me are happily married but not receiving the touch that they crave or deserve because their current partner is no longer sharing that type of intimacy with them and it no longer serves them to feel unloved.  Touch is crucial and it is just as important as food, shelter and a steady income.

When you go touch starved for far too long you begin to notice a retraction in your energy and a lack of motivation to explore and create.  We can accidentally shut down other chakras when our sexual energy is repressed.  We can also notice a lack of self worth and a lack of energy to follow through on simple things.

In order to flourish and create we have to feed ourselves positive, healing energy and I can help you by being your tantra partner for the time that we co create sacred space.  I can guide you into the breath and help quicken your energy levels so you feel supported again and more in sync with the universe. 

I am here to help you explore your sacred sensual energy in a safe, supportive, non judgmental atmosphere where you can completely let your guard down and be able to receive some caring energy for as long as you feel you need.  Some people decide that 90 minutes is just what they need and other people feel like a full day tantra immersion will help them bounce back into the land of the living again.

Bliss is your birth right. I know this sounds trite and you have probably seen this catch phrase before but it is your innate and chose right to feel alive and deeply loved again.

Please enjoy all the option you can receive on my main website at www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me with questions at 312-3339-7707
I will enjoy helping you on your journey soon!

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Rather than suffer from Seasonal Affect Disorder indulge your senses with a Tantra Spa Day with Goddess Diana

Dear Tantra Audience,
I am sharing an excerpt from my person blog with you this evening in the hopes I can give you some ideas to combat winter depression.
I myself have suffered from a mild form of Seasonal Affect disorder growing up here mostly in Chicago since a child.
If you are not familiar with SAD, it is a real depressive episode that hits a good percentage of the population during the winter months only and it's mostly caused by a lack of light.

I remember feeling so crushed and hopeless I hired a psychotherapist for some talk therapy and she gave me just a very small dosage of prozac but instantly I began to notice that I was developing some severe allergic reactions to this drug and I found that I was not having sound sleep or vivid dreams so once the drug started affecting my sleep cycles I just decided to fight winter depression with my own methods.

The lack of light can really agitate certain sensitive people especially if you love the Spring and summer as much as I do!  I love taking my dog for long walks in the summer but during the winter with threats of blizzards and snow and ice it really isn't quite the same.   There are no outside cafes in the dead of winter and certainly there are no flowers or birds flying overhead to give you that positive outlook.

Please explore my blog this week www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com because I have so many essays and small articles sharing my personal experiences with tantra and adult websites.

If you are stuck here in Chicago yourself and find you have extra free time to explore Tantra energies with me then I invite you to read my main website at your leisure www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please enjoy my essay and I hope to see you this winter here in Chicago!

Well I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.
So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.
So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.
My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.
I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!
Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.
Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.
You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.
During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.
Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.
I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.
Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.
Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.
If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.
Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!
Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
Muse
Tantra Massage therapist
Sound Healer
Rebirthing breath
Lomi Lomi Massage
Hot stone therapy