The subject of THE ME TOO Campaign is VERY hot right now so here we go!

First of all I'd love to introduce the idea that ME too applies to everyone not just women as a gender but many men have been victimized, molested, made to feel unsafe or violated by men and women!  I even dated a man who shared the fact that he was molested while under the care of a babysitter his mother had hired repeatedly so can you imagine how fragmented and vulnerable he must feel when he is undergoing or attempting intimacy with the opposite sex?  I do not trivialize or exempt anyone from the horror of being molested or taken advantage of by a caretaker, teacher, good friend, or relative as a vulnerable child.

I myself have been victimized at least TWICE in my lifetime due to the nature of the work I do which will expose me to people or (men) who carry or harbor resentment against women even though they wish to hire a woman to care of their sensual desires and needs.

I will recount an instance in particular when I lived in Atlanta, Georgia.  I am always very very diligent about how I verify new guests to my practice.  I always ask for a new guest's profession, chronological age, form of social media and real legal name.  I want to feel completely safe and relaxed prior to any tantra ceremony I am getting ready to prepare.  I am usually pleasantly happy when I meet my new guest after this brief verification process but once in while an occasional "bad thing" can happen even though I take great precautions to keep my space safe and drama free.

Four years ago I accepted a new client who resides in a city in Georgia.  He was a pharmaceutical representative, an older gentleman who gave me same days notice and showed up on time nicely dressed and seemingly professional.  I took pains to make him feel completely unrushed and let him get undressed, offered him water and proceeded to give him a two hour tantra massage even though he had made a point of insisting on a full 90 minutes as that was within his time constraints and budget. 

At the very end of the session he threw my body a certain way, penetrated me without MY consent and literally RAPED ME!  The sex was horrible, he was disgusting and I pretended as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened to spare his feelings.  Imagine I was raped but because I am a PAID and hired professional I had to keep it DRAMA FREE and not get hysterical.  I imagined he must have misunderstood the meaning of Tantra Massage and somehow got it convoluted in his head that Tantra = Sex. 

No Sir Tantra does not equal sex.  We are not engaging in SEXUAL intercourse during our session but unfortunately I was raped by a man I found to be arrogant and PHYSICALLY REPULSIVE. 
Now here's the kicker!? Are you ready for this?!  After he had finished raping me less than two weeks later he chose to HUMILIATE me one step further by posting a vile, negative, insulting and scathing untruthful review of our time together.  He chose a forum known as the erotic review and he used his membership name which is a handle known as rxrep.  Now sadly I do not know his LEGAL name but I am not opposed to giving his handle on TER away as a warning to my fellow providers who wish to avoid being treated so hideously. 

RXREP wrote a fictitious review of me on October 2012 in Atlanta, Georgia after he had seen me in a loft I rented out in Little 5 points in Atlanta, Georgia.  He decided to write me a truly nasty review stating my loft smelled of "cat piss" but actually prior to our session I had lit a ton of sage and burned frankincense tears on a burner on the oven stop top to create a loving vibe.  This pig known as RXREP then went on further to say MY animals ( my female pup and well behaved cat) were running amok in my space and were free to do as they please.  He claimed there were TONS of dirty dishes in my sink when there was maybe two dishes and a few forks because hey I decided to take him same days notice and so I did not know I'd be expecting a client that day so I had no chance to worry about dishes in my sink.

This nasty man went one step further claiming my eyebrows were stained blue and needed "tweezing" and that my hair was blue yet I had current photos of blue hair on my website so all he had to do was make note that I have an alternative look and I do not look like the typical "girl next door" nor did I ever in my lifetime ever resemble the singer Stevie Nicks who he claimed I looked like in my older photo galleries when I dyed my hair bleach blond. 

In RXREP's review he claimed I actually "did not look so bad" but on this day I looked weird with my blue hair and he said he should have just walked out.  I ponder and I wonder why on EARTH didn't RXREP simply offer me a $50.00 cancellation fee and politely excuse himself and tell me I was not quite was he was hoping for.  I may have been slightly hurt but I would have managed to move on and just use the fifty cancellation fee for groceries or a new dress.  Instead of RXREP cancelling on me he instead chose to VIOLATE ME in my loft apartment that I filled with a great deal of love and then go ahead and write an unkind and slanderous review of me on TER with the intention of making me look unprofessional online so no one would wish to hire me in Atlanta, Georgia.

I certainly do not claim to know what drives certain MISOGYNISTIC men like RXREP (name hidden) feel like they can rape a woman in my field, write a slanderous review and move on with their lives without penalty of the law but I do know this gentleman or CREEP is now paying what ever Karmic debt he incurred and he will continue to incur until the scales of balance are fully settled.  I never gave him permission to rape me.  I probably should have punched or kicked him hard but instead I did not wish to make a scene and allowed him to think all is well when it was not and will never be.

I have one more ME TOO story but that is for another time and day.  I can not imagine why certain men hate women to the extent that they must disempower a woman and then muddy up her name for all to see but now of course I am stepping up to the plate and allowing anyone who has any desire to read my story to learn more about what can happen to a provider of sensual services in the sex industry.

If you wish to learn more about me visit my main website at www.tantrabutterfly.com  You will find testimonials, articles I have written, photos and service options.  Sex is however NOT on the menu but I offer many healing and sensual alternatives to men, women, couples and gender fluid people who need some pampering.

You can find me on Facebook under three of my identities:
https://www.facebook.com/tantrabutterfly
https://www.facebook.com/GoddessDianaTantraButterfly
https://www.facebook.com/camouflageDiana

You may follow me on my twitter account at https://twitter.com/goddessdianna?any=en

and you may follow my wordpress blog at www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com

I do not think people fully realize how vulnerable sex workers can be.  I mean after all we are being "paid" for a "service" so if we complain to any legal entity then our profession and our websites will be scrutinized.  It's for this reason I am very cautious on the phone and make sure that before I work with any new male client I understand what his goals are and explain clearly that sex is not on the menu.  I can share so much more but I think this one ME TOO story will suffice for now.

If you are a MAN or a WOMAN who has been violated I do support you in your healing process.  You are never alone in your pain and you can transcend the pain into knowledge and self understanding, self love and self awareness!

Goddess Diana of tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com

My work number is 312-339-7707
Goddess Diana www.tantrabutterfly.com

The meaning of the word Goddess and how it triggers emotions in you

Recently I received a set of questions from an adult sexuality blogger in Australia.  I was given a series of thought provoking questions as part of her interview process to help her readers better understand what tantra yoga is and the ultimate health benefits of a tantra massage.
First let me explain what Tantra can do for your emotional and physical well being.   Our goal (our mutual goal) is to exchange mutually loving, healing, soothing, non judging energies between both of us.  If you decide to try my goddess worship session because you wish to master healing a woman with unconditional love then you have elected to learn how to process energy, breathe properly while healing the goddess, and touch with only loving intentions.  You are not touching for your personal sexual pleasures or self gratification; you are learning to heal and empower a woman’s chakra system and yoni so she can feel love surging through her from your sacred, healing touches.
I serve as a physical model teaching you about my sacred body and my boundaries so that when you leave our space of learning you feel confident and you have the healing tools and techniques and knowledge to share more loving touch with your partner.   I would always encourage a session of at least two to three hours in length so that you have enough time to ask me questions and learn the subtle nuances of carressive, unhurried strokes.
Men in general have a very powerful approach to sexual energies and women are very you in nature tending to withdraw more and being more inwardly focused.  Men and women react differently to touch and this my goddess worship sessions have !ore to do with goddess honoring rather than goddess domination.
I am not a dominatrix by trade and my intention is to help all men learn about safe boundaries using sexual energy as a healing medicine rather than a weapon.  When I use the phrase or term goddess I am implying that I am using my natural abilities as a healer and as a shaman to help you understand energy work better and I will be your guide always infusing you with hopefully essential, laughter and positivity while we together co create a cocoon of sacred space.
A Goddess is a giver of life forces.  She renews your energies and helps take you on a sacred and meaningful journey reuniting you with pieces and fragmented parts of your lost selves.  She invites and invokes more creativity in your approach to the mundane.  Who needs average when you can have Access to hidden parts of your intuition you may forgotten to use.  Goddesses are mythological beings with supernatural powers but really we all have supernatural powers as we learn to be limitless and learn the art of being present for ourselves and in the moment.
The universe has a sacred rhythm and the goddess has her seasons of renewal, death and ultimate rejuvenation.  Our bodies go through cell death and cellular rejuvenation daily and we wake up completely different from who we were yesterday.  Nothing remains in stasis forever as we react differently depending upon how threatening or welcoming our environment is at the present time.
A goddess is a mother of unconditional love who reminds you of your worth and your potential.  Goddesses heal and help you recapture your innocence and your innate sense of play.  Play the building block of trust, creativity and every new endeavor.  A Goddess helps you shed your layers so you are free to be your authentic self. 
When you contract my time you are allowing yourself space to replant new seeds and new sides of yourself.  I give you the opportunity to regain your magic, your trust and your natural ability to be in bliss.
Now that I am here in Chicago I invite you to play with me and heal your shadows.  We all have darkness and light within us and we are all powerful healers with unlimited potential.  My work and commitment as a Goddess is to show you how limitless you truly are!
Please enjoy my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and once you’re there take the time to read my articles, testimonials, services section and chakra page.  My site is always a work in progress and so are you and so am I!  I learn from my students and there is always room for growth and new experiences to savor.  You are welcome to call me directly at 312-339-7707 with additional questions or contact me by email at tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com.
My goals are to bring you to a state of complete trust, ecstacy and a feeling of weightlessness.  Tantra brings you so much bliss your cup is full especially with all the concentrated touch and warming energies that will be graciously and generously explored between us.

Never mistake me for a practitioner of BDSM although honestly I have been known to work with a small handful of men who sometimes want a gentle spanking and I certainly do not mind doling one out HOWEVER I perceive myself primarily as a TANTRA GODDESS which is a world of difference from the BDSM world.

I do not work from a dungeon and I am not seeking Submissive men to dominate.  If you are seeking a BDSM experience that is NOT tantra yoga nor do Tantra women in my field offering these options have any affiliation with me.  I am a healer, a guide, a shaman, a friend and Co creator of Sacred Space.  I open my services to men, women and couples who really want to take the art of energy work and Tantra Yoga seriously because they want to improve their sensitivities to touch.

I welcome INTELLIGENT Questions after you have first READ my main website www.tantrabutterfly.com  at least once CAREFULLY.  My wordpress blog www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com  has many articles I have written that help you understand my personal challenges and path.  I do not claim to be a GURU but I can be an intuitive mentor to you and I'd love to show you the LIGHTER more playful side of life!  I myself never place my faith on just one healing path or just any GURU.  You take what you can from what I have to teach and share with you then MAKE IT YOUR OWN with the knowledge I have provided you with to touch with good intentions!  I am not a Doctor nor am I a licensed psychiatrist.  I can offer you paths to bliss with one or more sessions and If you practice tantra yoga a little bit every day I can assure you your abilities as a healer will grow and natural intuition will continue to expand.  Tantra is ONE tool out of so many healing tools to help improve your emotional well being and your body's ability to heal itself.  One session gets you started in the right direction and multiple sessions paced over a period of time will help you evolve!

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So hypothetically, you randomly found me while doing a Google search using two key words–tantra and massage respectively.  You may have searched under alternative healing, chakra balancing, sound healing and reiki.  Tantra includes all of these aspects and if you want to really delve into the realm of tantra yoga and tantra massage here in Chicago, I’d strongly advise you to plunge in and indulge yourself in a five hour or full day and night of sensory overload.  You may love a full hour or a 90 minute bliss vacation to start with but a true student of Tantra Yoga will just take the dive and enjoy a complete journey of the Chakras for a full or half day.

I’m professionally trained to help you reconnect to your power centers which includes a full body awakening  called kundalini Shakti 🐍.  You will be engaged in sound healing, fresh fruit, trigger point massage and a chakra bath that I will prepare for you so you feel embraced and safe.
Our tantra journey will begin with an intimate conversation so I can understand all your goals fully.

 We will be holding hands, spooning and cuddling, touching our heart centers, chanting, and laughing.  Laughter is the most healing and empowering medicine and you will feel your pelvic muscles loosen up as I use my intuition to help you create more flow and energy in your power centers we call chakras.

Tantra is about mutual touch, mutual trust, mutual connection and breaking through all the stumbling blocks currently preventing you from acquiring abundance and creativity.  We work together creating a space of healing and gentleness.

Five hours of tantra is as effective as five separate tantra sessions and it will help speed up your awakening through pranayama, third eye activation and an open heart center which helps you heal past the cellular level helping you find the courage to make dramatic changes in your physical and emotional bodies.  Just as an aside Tantra speeds up your metabolism and your personal ascension process which leads you to greater full body awareness and bliss.

Please take some time to read my main website http://www.tantabutterfly.com because i want you to read about my journey as a healer, reiki master, and tantra educator.  Read the testimonials and see if you feel a connection to the words I’ve written over the years.
Each tantra session in Chicago and other cities is unique and we focus on issues you wish to heal or maybe you are innately curious and you wish to let down your guard and help co create sacred space with me.

I welcome your questions so you may email me at butterflyshadows@aol.com or tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com or simply call me at 312-339-7707.
Tantra will change your body, electrify your spirit and help you regain your sense of connectedness. Please be aware I will also want to know more about you, your current health, your occupation and of course your full legal name.  If you want to create more trust it begins with you. Our connection is always Sacred and private and I will not be sharing any of your personal information with anyone under any circumstance.  I simply want to know more about your journey in a small, basic description that you feel comfortable sharing.  I do not need a novel of your life story just a nice brief outline so I can see if I can assist you with your goals.

Goddess 🌹 Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

312-339-7707
butterflyshadows@aol.com
Tantragoddessdiana@gmail.com
Sacred Muse,
Reiki master
Tantra educator
couples Massage therapist
Energy worker

I use Sacred healing sounds, aromatherapy, trigger point touch, breathing techniques,

and many other sacred tools to help charge up your chakras and create flow for you.

I would have been delighted to see you as a couple but....

You did not give me advanced notice!!!! Don’t let this happen to you and don’t let me have to turn you away due to bad timing, bad scheduling and zero notice. Yes I know most couples come to Chicago for a purpose; I know you most of the time you did not come to Chicago specifically for me or you would have called a week before.


In the event that you did come to Chicago specifically as a potential treat of relaxation for you and your partner and you decided to visit me for couples Tantra Massage in Chicago then by all means give me several days notice so we can brainstorm together. Brainstorming means we all have a three way conversation on the phone like a phone interview. You both have your chance to discuss boundaries and goals and what you love or don’t love.

I will give you suggestions and give you my recommendations on the best hotels to stay at in the suburbs or inner city of Chicago. I will give you the best times that work for YOU both so you don’t need to worry if I am available or not available at a moment’s notice. I do not want to turn you away– I want this to work out for everyone and plan out my own transportation needs in advance so you do not need to worry.

Yes I know sometimes couples find me online at the very last minute and it’s very rare for me to promise you a session with less than four hours notice so you are always welcome to try me at the last minute and if it’s meant to be I might literally be a mere half hour away from you and have all my massage oils with me (but I might not). I might have to give you a strong no but I might give you a yes or a maybe if you are extremely flexible with what time we begin our session and If I even have the energy to devote to both of you after working on others that same day. Do you understand? Tantra is about mutual shared respect and circulating only the best most positive energies between the three of us so wouldn’t you want to give me as much notice as possible so I am fresh for you and have not over scheduled or feeling healthy and refreshed that day?

So yes I know most people find me by accident and you might not have another day in Chicago to spare. In that event work around my schedule, send me an uber, have payment ready and we are good to go because I want to be of service to you but you have to meet me more than halfway for that to happen.

Here is an excerpt I pulled directly from my own personal tantra website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Please read and enjoy!
 
Couples coaching and Sacred bodywork


Couples, during our ceremony I invite you to join me in the timelessness of tantric shamanism. All three of us will comingle our unique energies and learn the art of Just “being” letting all our cares go as I teach you the fundamentals of Yoga breathe work and holding sacred space and forgiveness for your partner. I will teach the both of you how to send and transmute unconditional love and healing from your heart and hands into your lover’s most intimate places of wounding, hurt, shame and deep joy.

Our time together will be spent in a place of healing and reverance and we can use this time as you wish. It can be a time of quiet meditative discussion and connecting or we can each take turns learning the sacred art of being “giver” and “receiver”.

I can teach the two of you Beloveds special practices that will allow you to be the perfect, compassionate lover to your mate. Some examples of these practices are aura massage, Heart to Hand breath, spoon breathing, chanting, and traditional effluerage strokes that will bring your partner to a sense of deep peace and complete trust.

I will spend our time together teaching you both the art of energy sensing and nurturing the senses in tenderness.

I would consider our time together a sacred journey that will enable the two of you to grow as healers to each other.

I consider myself to be a very intuitive and compassionate teacher and I would ask the two of you to refrain from any activities in my prescense that would lead to Kama Sutric Sex. If after our time together my sessions enabled the two of you to be more tender and passionate together that would be a blessing. If our time together ignited a spark of deep love and exploration I would ask that you hold that dear sacred space in your hearts and share that passion with eachother in the sanctity and privacy of your own home after we have concluded our special time together. I do not consider myself to be merely a “fluffer”, I am a deeply respectful and nurturing soul, a student just like you but I would not wish to be present during any Kama Sutric explorations while we share sacred tantric space together.
There will be moments during our time together when I will ask for your help as we work on your partner’s sensual energies and I would teach you four handed massage and kundalini massage so you can take these practices home with you to begin your own unique Tantric Journies.


Please understand I am not a sex worker. I am primarily a healer, a teacher and an empath here to facilitate a major opportunity for your personal intimate growth and I would not be able to provide tantric sex during our sacred time together nor would I feel comfortable teaching you sexual positions or any practices that were too explicit. We would all be nude in a state of comfortable undress or you may even bring saris and light robes to our ceremony if that made you more relaxed. Our time together would be a celebration of the mind, soul, and physical pleasures with conscious heart connection.

Namaste,
Goddess Diana


You can find these paragraphs specifically at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com/couples.htm
Do you want to call me on impulse? It’s flattering that you need me but are you prepared for me to tell you that I am only available at 1 am or 4pm or not in the evening hours like you wanted. Are you willing to drop anything and everything for me if I say yes I am available for both of you? If you are very malleable and you can change all your plans at the last minute then the answer is a firm yes I can see you, you can hire an uber, or lyft or driver for me and we are in agreement!
If you have a life and important plans in Chicago like a play to attend or friends to visit then give me three days notice and let’s all make sure I get there at the time you need without you having to pay my cab fare because I will make sure I take a train to see you and be ready fifteen minutes early just to make sure I am not late for you! Treat me like a professional and you will receive the best I have to offer you.

The labyrynth by Alexia Sinclair

Stone Tree: The Language of Rape in Our Culture and Ill Mannered Warlocks: Christian Day

Stone Tree: The Language of Rape in Our Culture and Ill Mannered Warlocks: Christian Day

Join Goddess Diana in Chicago for Tantra Benefits that will Heal your Being

Tantra is a skill and a form of meditation that has been practiced by Tibetan monks, Buddhists and Hindus for well over 9000 years. We can trace Tantra yoga’s origins to the mountains of India where religious sects practiced sexual, sacred ceremonies called Pujas for a specific purpose such as planting seeds of abundance for a good harvest or simply leading one to a path of higher enlightenment by using sexual energy as a magical component to awaken the third eye via Kundalini Shakti.
Today people are intrigued enough to meet with a Tantra provider to see if there is anything Tantra can do for their emotional frame of mind or simply out of complete curiosity.
Today’s culture embraces a more pragmatic ritual where we combine a full body hands on healing rather than a random puja ritual of meeting in a sacred circle to team up with a complete stranger for a sacred sexual act to consecrate the land.
Modern Tantrikas invest their time in you– teaching you the right way to breathe fully and connect with you so that you are fully in the moment and not distancing yourself or detaching from your own body.
Modern tantra yoga involves full body Tantra Massage, belly breathing, eye gazing, mutual touch, mutual connection, and opening up your boundaries during peaks of pleasure. All your erogenous zones are awakened playfully and are used to tenderly heal your old emotional wounds to prepare you for sacred space.
You will learn to give up your need to control as your tantra guide stimulates your sexual energies with compassion and slow, soothing strokes. This is not about an end result nor is tantra about obtaining an orgasm.
Tantra helps you use your own sexual energy as medicine for your body. If you have a hard time falling asleep at nights your tantra session will help get you in a more relaxed frame of composure; but if you are too tired all the time tantra can also give you that extra zing for life and boost your energy level because Tantra can either be a stimulant for those who are too tired to function or it can act as a sleeping aide for insomniacs. Your body will determine what it needs from the tantra session so what ever does happen will be for the best.
Here are some wonderful reasons to try a tantra session for the first time.
1. Relax and Restore your Body and Mind
Your first tantra massage with me as your guide will include a firm, deep tissue massage and your Scalp, neck, shoulders, back and feet will be kneaded with meticulous care and attention to detail.
I carefully and methodically tune into your body’s individual needs so that you feel balanced and restored. Many of my clients feel a sense of complete relaxation yet they remain at a heightened state of arousal as I work with your energy centers (Chakras) and guide you into sensual pleasure. You will feel safe, loved, relaxed and aroused all at once.
2. Improve Your Breath and Circulation
My goal as your Tantra Muse and teacher is to help you be still in the moment and to be still in the moment is to let go which means you are free to be who you are and let go of your guard at last. We will gaze at each other, pause, laugh, connect and breathe deeply. If I see you have stopped breathing I remind you to calm your energy down long enough to take a deep heart breath or belly breath.
Breathing carries your sexual energies everywhere in your body and this helps your heart rate slow down and improves your circulatory system keeping you in a balanced form of hormonal stasis.
As you learn how to slow down you retrain your body to react slower to stimulation prolonging your body’s ability to sustain waves of orgasmic pleasure. You will taste of the pleasure in slow sips and nibbles and this new way of “being” becomes habitual and changes your outlook on every aspect of your life from dining out to trying on clothing.
3. Emotional Healing
One’s journey into Tantra involves emotional healing and the pealing of all your layers so that you evolve and become more open and honest with yourself. Tantra is designed to help you receive love with a more open heart.
As I teach you breathing techniques your chest cavity is more open and this leads to emotional healing and more heart openness. You will deal more honestly with yourself rather than burying your feelings.
You might find yourself crying or laughing during your state of openness and all this leads to greater compassion for yourself and others. Your emotional blocks are skillfully addressed during an extended ceremony as you let down your shields and learn the art of self acceptance.
When you learn how to receive pleasure and unconditional love your self esteem grows and your relationship with others is enhanced and improved.
4. Experience PEACEFULNESS AND Pleasure
Peace of mind is achieved during our shared Tantra ceremony. We will both experience mutual pleasure because I love making sure you are enjoying yourself and getting lost in the moment which brings me pleasure because I love making people feel good.
Your pleasure will come in many forms which includes complete muscle relaxation, full body waves of bliss, emotional restoration and the physical release that comes from having a spiritually infused orgasm which is called Kundalini Shakti activation and leads to even more bliss.
5. Tantra leads to Self awareness
The true goal of any tantra student is to attain Nirvana in a very natural and non invasive way. As I teach you how to breathe deeply into your Chakra bodies I may have you visualize that your pineal gland is getting brighter and clearer and this helps activate your Crown chakra leading you to a greater connection to Source.
As you gain trust in your ability to connect to a higher Power or your own inner power you begin to trust in your inner voice and inner intuition. There will be no more room in your life for self doubt; you will simply trust yourself each time you schedule a tantra session. Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to breathe and simply “Be” the more you will begin to have faith in yourself rather than relying on others to guide you.
6. Your Quality of Life Improves
Tantra yoga teaches you self discipline because we do everything slowly together and I teach you how to curb your impulses and your natural inclination to get to the “good stuff” first.
Whether you decide you wish to hire me to focus on your pleasure only or you wish to learn the art of sexual orgasm I am here to teach you how to touch with intention and with slowness so that you are not rushing into anything for the sole purpose of an end goal.
There is no end result we need to achieve. Our shared time is considered sacred and life in itself is an act of celebration and we make mistakes and learn along the way. Its okay to make mistakes and repeat sessions for the sake of learning how to slow down.
We focus on the present moment and we are not worried about where you were or what you need to become. We share a moment in time during our tantra ceremony and I teach you how to expand time so that you can no longer feel the passage of time and space.
Men who are concerned about ejaculatory control or premature ejaculation will find benefits to spending time practicing tantra massage and tantra breath with me. I will make sure you are not worried about an end result. You will feel more composed and secure so that your quality of life will improve as you keep yourself focused on the now.
8. Acquire Abundance
So you are probably wondering how abundance comes into play with our sacred ceremony. After all you are spending good money to see me and you wish to invest your money into a positive experience that will potentially benefit you emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially.
There is a special sacred ceremony we can partake in together during your session and it is called a Muladhara Chakra awakening or prostate activation.
Prostate massage is a gateway to help you establish a better sense of trust and self awareness. You learn to let go as I gently penetrate you with my finger and send you healing but powerful energy that will help awaken your kundalini energy and bring you the abundance you crave.
I personally find that men who are by nature very secure in their ability to make a good living love prostate massage the most and they are completely open and trusting feeling waves of insurmountable pleasures as I activate their prostate.
It is interesting to note that men who have a hard time giving up “control” and men who do not feel completely secure have a tendency to tighten up and feel nervous as I attempt to activate their kundalini energy this way.
Everything takes practice and patience and if the thought of acquiring abundance intrigues and excites you; but the thought of being penetrated repulses and alarms you then we can take slow steps getting you to the point where you trust me enough to stimulate you in this way.
I can assure you that if this idea appeals to you but you are too afraid you can let me know your boundaries ahead of time and I can still activate your prostate from the outside without fully penetrating your anal area.
Energy is energy and intentions can carry energy just as skillfully as a more firm touch or caress.
9. Combat Stress and Fatigue
Tantra massage is a gateway to helping you combat fatigue and stress due to adrenal fatigue failure.
During my sessions I place a very strong emphasis on your core which is your third Chakra or solar plexus. Your solar plexus is your mini solar system and helps you with your intuition as it helps you with body signals.
I am sure you know what it’s like to feel butterflies in your stomach right before a performance, a speech or before meeting with someone you have deep feelings for.
Your stomach carries a great deal of stress and so I will be massaging your tummy during our session so you can feel safe and loved. This massage aides your digestive system and encourages your body to produce less cortisol so you are not in a constant state of fight or flight.
If you see me on a regular basis I can assure you you will be on your way to greater rest, less stress, and you can start losing weight with ease.
During your belly massage I will encourage you to take deep, slow belly breaths and all this deep breathing will improve your energy levels and get oxygen flowing to your brain and other organs decreasing your fatigue and helping you to get to a prolonged feeling of ecstasy when we address your erogenous zones.
Any massage will help those dealing with stress, but the tantra massage takes it one step further than simply relaxing your body. Since tantra focuses on your emotional, physical, spiritual and sexual health all at once, you will leave with a renewed sense of self and lowered stress levels as a result of your tantra ceremony.
In summary if you want to gift yourself the pleasure of unsurpassed sensuality, dedicated deep tissue massage and the ability to withhold and sustain heightened sensory awareness then call me immediately and schedule an extended tantra ceremony with me soon!
Please read my personal website first http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a complete list of ceremonial options then call me directly 312-339-7707
Goddess Diana
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Sensual Healer honoring Individuals seeking a Sensual and Sacred Journey and Couples who seek intimacy and understanding
Certified Therapist, Energy worker and Tantric Educator
A Specialist in Unconditional Love*
Journey with me
Cellular Contact : 312-339-7707
The following paragraph is a Disclaimer:
I DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of my Tantric practice with any of my students. I have a deep respect for other men and women in my field who do offer the full Kama Sutra experience; but I myself choose to remain celibate as a means of extending my own energy and integrity during each of my sessions. I practice a combination of toning exercises, deep breathing, eye/soul
gazing, and Tantra massage but I am not an “escort” service. I can create an ecstatic and harmonious experience for you during our shared time as we Co create Sacred Space but sexual intercourse is not included during our ceremonies.

Tantra Massage in Chicago by Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly

I decided to lift the veil and the mystery for many people who have never trusted anyone with an introduction to sacred sexual energy. First of all if you skip out on the essential ingredients that preclude any traditional tantra session you are not going to be able to attain sexual bliss the way it was meant to be tasted–which is in small bites. If you just want an hour of tantra just understand it will be more likened to a sensual rub down rather than a journey protracted in time.
Tantra massage involved discipline, withholding your baser, sexual instincts, connecting to your body and your partner and most importantly suspending and protracting time by using breath properly.
If you are short on time or money 90 minutes is a great opening in tantra sensory exploration but two hours or longer is what most people need just to begin understanding how energy works.
I always suggest newcomers to tantra find a good tantra partner they trust and then to visit someone on a regular basis at least once a month or once every six weeks. You need to also read books, buy videos, attend workshops in Tantra yoga in Chicago, and practice a little bit on your own every day so you can see slow improvements in your overall energy and your intuition.
Every single chakra in your body is awakened and healed during all tantra sessions with me so even if an hour is all you can commit to it’s still progress but longer sessions are recommended for beginning students who need to learn how to breathe and how to give and receive energy exchanges.
If you have time for a half day or a full day of tantra we can spend time in the water for a full hour or longer where I will support your body weight and let you float and drift off. You will achieve weightlessness as I sing and tune your chakras but more importantly you will feel safe, confident and loved. I will assist you with the breath work as I train you to breathe into different chakra bodies just by using stillness , focus and intention. You feel calmer and more present. Some people find this exercise challenging especially if you are always one who plans ahead but if you can let go for a few hours with me your body will be able to release stress and you will feel more refreshed and clear headed.
I read so many articles from adult message boards on the internet and the comments I read are borderline anger to completely false and untrue. Many adult hobbyists are not really seeking tantra because they are too impatient and want a quick fix or cure all. They might tend to have false expectations on What Tantra is because they visited a high class call girl who advertises under a Tantra category. The client will leave pleased or very unhappy and might review her in such glowing terms to suggest how great she is because she “skips to the good stuff first and won’t waste your time with spiritual mumbo jumbo.” But what if the client was short changed and deceived by a woman who had no formal training in tantra yoga in Chicago or certified training in tantra in other major cities? What if the client never gets to experience the nirvana they could have attained had they simply decided to do their homework and connect with a certified tantra educator who actually cared enough to teach proper breathing and pc muscle exercises?
If you can devote a half day or full day with me I promise we will have more than enough time for you to understand the basics of tantra and how to enhance and improve your body’s ability to retain sexual stamina and use it as medicine for your soul and your body’s physical health.
We will have time for questions and answers, bathing and cleansing of your chakras; and I can work with your goals during a mutual exchange of touch, sensory awareness and stillness.
Please do not cheat yourself by skipping out on breath and edge play. I can assure you all your goals will be met during a full two hours of tantra or longer and if you purchase reading material and practice a bit every day you will be amazed at your transformation.
Please visit my facebook page Tantra Butterfly and feel free to send me a linkedin invitation once you scroll to the bottom of my personal website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com.
I have been practicing alternative healing and sensual massage for twenty years and I am well reviewed in Chicago, New Orleans, Washington D.C.. Virginia and Atlanta. I welcome your call if you wish to explore tantra on your own or as a couple (312) 339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Reiki Master
Certified Tantra Educator
Muse
Massage Therapist
Aromatherapist
Alternative Healer

Yes! It’s that time again and I encourage all customers who use the Eros guide to contact them directly and ask why their favorite, well known and established providers are being BANNED from advertising for life.
And I am also requesting all current advertisers to FIRE eros guide for a period of one to three months because eros guide counts on your revenue to exist.
I have noticed an increase of angry women all over the nation and in Canada complaining that their ads are being removed and banned for silly reasons. My theory is that eros guide has started playing favorites and using their advertising forum exclusively for themselves and their close personal friends because the site became over crowded since 2012.
Over the years the eros guide kept changing their format and requesting providers to use less characters in their ad or different words for fear of being shut down by the government for using suggestive sexual language.
I was warned every six weeks to remove certain words till I realized I was being picked on because I used words that were similar to other women in the industry but they were not being monitored as closely so I began realizing a sick trend where Eros guide representatives had special “friends” advertising, newer, younger women and fresher faces brand new to the field.
In fact I was often told my banners were receiving close to 1500 clicks directly to my website which proves I may have been direct competition to new women without a trusted brand name or website. One thing specifically that always infuriated me was the fact that eros guide allowed anyone with or without education to post ads under the category of Tantra and most of these women were just call girls. I do not mind call girls on the site but I do mind when men who do not understand anything about tantra call these women up who do not even have a tantra website and based on their experiences decide that tantra means sex.
Eros guide uses cam girls and pop up sites that now distract new clients from being able to even navigate the site. I was always told by my clients that they found it confusing and that is why we started noticing a huge drop in business and calls.
I am now going to copy and paste a fresh complaint from a woman in the sex industry who was also banned from the eros guide and she was also not given a good excuse. She received an email from one of the eros guide customer service reps and so I am sharing you this copy from the rip off report so you can see for yourself what is going on with the eros guide.
Here is the copied text:
I HAD A EROS ACCOUNT SINCE 2013 AND TODAY THEY EMAILED ME THIS:
Hello Mary,
I hope this email finds you well.
We want to inform you that it has come to our attention that your account associated to another account which has been closed in the past for policy violation, therefore this account will also be closed.
When the decision to close an account is made, it is a permanent one.
We wish you well with any future endeavors.
Regards,
Eli
Customer Service Representative
WTF is what I said?! I have never had any issues, nor any payment issues with EROS since 2013. I have used my account religiously and made a ton using EROS as I have gained a lot of regular clients. When I called EROS.. first, they were completely rude. The b***h who answered, Julia, was a complete rude b***h. She told me my account was linked to closed accounts and nothing they can do about it and that I CAN NOT EVER POST WITH EROS AGAIN! They refused to refund me the money I just put up on my ad too. $350 UGH
I am dumbfounded on why? I have never changed anything about my EROS account. Never. When I started in 2013 I got so busy that I needed assistance so I did have a company I use to answer my calls but its been the same co. for 4 years. Nothing has changed on my end except 2 things: my photos, and my tour schedule obviously needs to change. That is it.
Eros failed to tell me anything on what I was linked to and I believe this is a RANDOM excuse they are using to scam girls and take their money or just getting rid of girls from the site. No one I know is linked to a closed account or banned from EROS. But I just heard from another GF that EROS is doing this to random girls. WHY?
They suck. I believe EROS is a scam and they’re running on some sort of weird reasons on why they are shutting and banning girls from their site. NOthing I have done since 2013 has changed drastically. NOTHING.

So here it comes back to me now and my personal thoughts on how the Eros guide is treating all of us online.

Men if you miss your favorite providers then stick up for us and do and say something! Women if you are worried you will be next in line and will be randomly dismissed from the Eros guide then put your ad offline for a month or two in silent protest.

I hope the Eros guide changes for the better because it used to be such a wonderful place for me to be discovered by some wonderful men, women and couples.
I hope for the best but right now I am obligated to share all of this information with you so you understand that the original owner of the eros guide must have given it up to new people who just do not seem to play fair or “get it”.

In the meantime I pray people still know I am full active even though I personally have been banned from using the eros guide for life.
My site is still up and running http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and I am always available to work with couples, single men and single women who need to rejuvenate. Please visit me and receive soothing tantra massage, reiki, chakra balancing, sensory exploration and exquisite touch.

Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
312-339-7707

Couples Tantra and Tantra Massage in Schaumburg by Goddess Diana

Hello All lovers of touch, sensuality and bliss!  Goddess Diana is currently visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and is available for small workshops, private couples coaching, reiki instruction, beginners tantra for singles and all types of energetic healings.  I take my work very seriously and I would be delighted to be your first tantra teacher here in Illinois.

Have you been tempted to try tantra but just never could fit the time in your busy day to come to downtown Chicago or the West Loop? This week I am visiting Schaumburg, Illinois and offering my Tantra Massage therapies to all residents and visitors of this suburb.
If you a couple seeking beginners couple therapy feel free to visit my main website for detailed information at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com then call me directly with additional questions at 312-339-7707.
I welcome couples, and offer private one on one healing therapies to all of the Chicago land area and nearby suburbs. During couples tantra you will learn how to touch your partner with healing and loving intentions followed by a few masterful techniques to help you connect better and delay and hold off on orgasm.
You will be confident, relaxed and enlightened after just one session. My recommendation for all beginners of couples tantra here in Schaumburg is to allot enough time at least 3 to four hours to understand the very basics of tantra breath, reiki, and tantra postures so you can practice on each other after our session is over.
You are going to be actively involved and will have a chance to become receiver and giver. You will learn the art of the Conscious Cuddle and learn how to communicate better with your lover and establish healthy boundaries.
All couples Tantra Massage in Schaumburg. Illinois are to be held in your private home, condo, apartment or hotel only. I feel that couples should have that yummy energy stay with them and you will feel more safe and relaxed in your own home environment.
Private sessions for single men or women are conducted in your space or mine and again longer sessions for beginners tantra are always encouraged for beginners of Tantra yoga in Schaumburg.
I can’t wait to meet you
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com

Couples Tantra Educator
Certified Licensed Tantra Coach
Reiki Master
Muse
Alternative healing bodyworker
Cuddle therapist

Couples Tantra Massage and Tantra Education in Chicago by Goddess Diana

It dipped in temperature again this March and it’s the perfect time to make an excuse to do extraordinary indoor activities to share with your partner. My sessions are so easy to learn, understand and digest. If you only have one session with me I suggest a session which lasts no shorter than three hours and no longer than four hours because there is so much energy you will be processing and information for you to understand.
You will not be sitting idle as I work with you and your partner. Both of you are going to be involved so be prepared to be engaged during out Tantra couples session here in Chicago because I want you to be active and you are going to be my massage partner assisting me and helping your loved one feel safe.

I teach some very basic breathing exercises and there is nothing complex for you to learn as I guide you on how to take in air fully so you feel more energetic during the giving process and so your partner can feel more of your heart energy once you learn how to breathe

into your heart chakra the right way.

I work from your home or hotel space so please give me some advanced notice so I can have everything ready for our shared ceremony. I do sometimes accommodate last minute appointments and there is such a thing as synchronicity but I strongly advise you to plan ahead and figure out a perfect day or evening for both of you so you can be stress free and not worry about work or obligations or children.

My Couples Tantra Massage will include lessons for you both and after working with me just once you will be able to give each other skillful tantra massages with an emphasis on correct breathing, learning how to touch your lover with healing intentions and creating a sacred space.
I use essential oils and you will gain an understanding of how certain scents uplift you and help you feel more centered. I will use all my skills which is sound healing, breath, reiki, toning of the chakras and yoni and lingham honoring so you will feel complete. You will both receive a deep tissue massage that will leave you feeling refreshed , calm and at peace.
I will go anywhere you are within the city of Chicago or the suburbs and if you have the desire to make our session a learning intensive I can work with you and one other couple to create a mini workshop and let all of you have time to be a good giver of tantra massage and good receiver of tantra yoga.

My intention is to leave you with a good understanding of the very beginnings of your tantra journey so you feel more confident with each other and you both are inspired to continue in your private studies either with me or any other skilled provider of the Tantra Arts.
My opinion is we learn a “bit” from everyone we meet and my style of Tantra massage will differ from another person’s interpretation because I do not follow a set recipe but rely upon my inner intuition when I hover over your body and I of course believe in goals so I will listen to both of you prior, during and after our shared ceremony so we can hopefully achieve a blissful and educational session that helps you become empowered and comfortable in your own body.

If you have questions please refer to my main website at http://www.tantrabutterfly.com and always feel free to call me directly at 312-339-7707.
Goddess Diana of Tantra Butterfly
Muse
Couples Tantra Coach
Tantra Educator
Reiki Master
Advanced Massage therapist

Reiki healing and Tantra Activations are completely enmeshed together

I receive so many calls lately from new people who do not have a clue what Tantra is.  Honestly it's not my responsibility to give a full account of any definition of Tantra yoga or Tantra massage.  It's not my intention to be a free source of information for anyone contacting me by phone but I truly enjoy sharing information and enlightening strangers via the written word because I love writing as much as I love offering Tantra Ceremonies and giving Reiki healings.

I have a blog on wordpress.com and you can find it here at www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com  or you can have a look at my main website here at www.tantrabutterfly.com.  The average person these days normally does not have the time commitment or patience to read the contents of my blog or my personal website but it's not my responsibility to educate anyone over the phone unless of course they treat me like a professional and pay for a phone consultation.

The best way to understand Tantra and energy work in general is to understand that we are energy beings and we have energy stations in our body which connect to each other.  If one part of our energy mechanism is malfunctioning it affects how our energy centers communicate and work with each other.  If one energy power station is completely down or shut off then energy is not free to travel and the energies get clogged or "backed up" so that we feel a constriction and lack of flow.

During a reiki session your energy is gently opened up and I am not giving or taking energy from you but I am present with you and allowing your energy to shift and slowly open up.  You will feel tingling and warm sensations and a feeling of calm.  You might feel more energy or less energy depending upon what your body intuitively requires at the time of the healing.  Tantra also focuses on all your energy centers or Chakra bodies.  Tantra's goal is to help get you activated and fully charged up again connecting all your power centers from your third eye to your solar plexus or stomach area and your root chakra and sexual centers.  You are not cut off from you sexual energy you are always in a state of complete flow unless you choose to ignore your sexual energy or shut off your connection to joy and bliss.  In the same aspect you can't simply go around with an over charged sexual energy or appetite but ignore your heart chakra and your need for connection and love. 

Tantra rebuilds your capacity to feel more alive, refreshed, balanced, and loved.  You can feel completely centered during our Tantra ceremony and I will always be encouraging you to come back to your body through the gentle breathing exercises we share together.  I take my time with you and use a great deal of balanced reiki energy,  essential oils, sound healing and breath to keep you in alignment.  You will see firsthand what energy work can do for your state of mind and well being.
Tantra can not be understood through reading text books or chatting on the phone.  Tantra is best understood when you actively participate and allow me to help you engage and awaken all your senses and energy centers through the gift of intentional touch.

If you have not read my site yet please do so now...  www.tantrabutterfly.com.  When you are ready for your first session call me directly and I'd love to help you meet your goals and achieve better balance.

Tantra Bathing Ceremonies enhance your potential to be more open

There is something very special about connecting with your loved one in a bath filled with essential oils, salts and colors.  Before receiving sacred touch take the time to connect with your partner in a bath for two.  Use some very playful items such as bubble bath or maybe food coloring so you can include some color therapy to enhance and awaken your chakras.

Be creative and silly when you engage in a bathing ceremony.  Don't be afraid to throw some crystals in the water like tumbled semi precious stones or tumbled quartz.  Have the lights dimmed and surround your bathtub with tea lights and flower petals if you wish. 

Always use scents in your bath that are pleasing to both of you whether it's an inviting vanilla,  a refreshing lime or lemon or an invigorating hint of peppermint.  Always use a bit of caution when using anything strong like peppermint or wintergreen because these two essential oils can be a bit aggravating to your tender skin so a little is just perfect maybe a drop or two.  You can be more generous with lavender essential oil and use about 10 drops without irritating your skin.  The key here is a little aromatherapy helps soothe your mind but too much will irritate your skin and potentially burn.

Now that you have the music playing and the candles burning just gaze into your lover's eyes and make humming noises together.  Experiment with pitch, tone and sound.  Try and sing in harmony and share your energy by tuning your voices together and breathing slowly but deeply.

When you connect in the Sacred Bath Ceremony try not to rush the breathing and just let your mind go.  You will join hands together and try to align all your major Chakra centers with each other by holding your hands over your partners throat,  lungs and stomach.  Take your time exploring one another slowly and with compassion.

All couples are encouraged to join me for any of my Sacred Bath Ceremonies so please view my main website www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me directly at 312-339-7707.  I love working with couples but if you do not have a Sacred other and wish to join me for a Tantra Bath Ceremony in Chicago or any other city please reach out to me soon and I will teach you how to discover and revitalize your sensual energy centers in a creative and soothing sacred space.

I invite you to visit with me for Cuddling Sessions and Sensual Surrender

Hello everyone here in Chicago it's me Goddess Diana of www.tantrabutterfly.com and I just felt like reaching out today and writing.  Writing has always been a fun past time for me and I love to convey my feelings here by freely expressing myself and sharing what I know about Tantra, connection and healing touch.
I am on various forms of social media these days so if you are not already familiar please visit my public page on facebook here https://www.facebook.com/tantrabutterfly/  and of course feel free to enjoy blog www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com.

I am sharing with you today the importance of sacred touch and I am very skilled with sharing sacred space and making every space a healing and safe circle whether it's in your home, my space, a hotel room or any dwelling where you feel safe, happy and supported.

My intentions are to help you grow and help you when you feel a bit emptied out inside or without a love interest of your own.  I have worked with married men who know that something is very wrong in their marriage and in the meantime they are seeking some empathy and a cuddle.  There is nothing morally wrong with needing touch and companionship.

Most of the men who do contact me are happily married but not receiving the touch that they crave or deserve because their current partner is no longer sharing that type of intimacy with them and it no longer serves them to feel unloved.  Touch is crucial and it is just as important as food, shelter and a steady income.

When you go touch starved for far too long you begin to notice a retraction in your energy and a lack of motivation to explore and create.  We can accidentally shut down other chakras when our sexual energy is repressed.  We can also notice a lack of self worth and a lack of energy to follow through on simple things.

In order to flourish and create we have to feed ourselves positive, healing energy and I can help you by being your tantra partner for the time that we co create sacred space.  I can guide you into the breath and help quicken your energy levels so you feel supported again and more in sync with the universe. 

I am here to help you explore your sacred sensual energy in a safe, supportive, non judgmental atmosphere where you can completely let your guard down and be able to receive some caring energy for as long as you feel you need.  Some people decide that 90 minutes is just what they need and other people feel like a full day tantra immersion will help them bounce back into the land of the living again.

Bliss is your birth right. I know this sounds trite and you have probably seen this catch phrase before but it is your innate and chose right to feel alive and deeply loved again.

Please enjoy all the option you can receive on my main website at www.tantrabutterfly.com and then call me with questions at 312-3339-7707
I will enjoy helping you on your journey soon!

Rather than suffer from Seasonal Affect Disorder indulge your senses with a Tantra Spa Day with Goddess Diana

Dear Tantra Audience,
I am sharing an excerpt from my person blog with you this evening in the hopes I can give you some ideas to combat winter depression.
I myself have suffered from a mild form of Seasonal Affect disorder growing up here mostly in Chicago since a child.
If you are not familiar with SAD, it is a real depressive episode that hits a good percentage of the population during the winter months only and it's mostly caused by a lack of light.

I remember feeling so crushed and hopeless I hired a psychotherapist for some talk therapy and she gave me just a very small dosage of prozac but instantly I began to notice that I was developing some severe allergic reactions to this drug and I found that I was not having sound sleep or vivid dreams so once the drug started affecting my sleep cycles I just decided to fight winter depression with my own methods.

The lack of light can really agitate certain sensitive people especially if you love the Spring and summer as much as I do!  I love taking my dog for long walks in the summer but during the winter with threats of blizzards and snow and ice it really isn't quite the same.   There are no outside cafes in the dead of winter and certainly there are no flowers or birds flying overhead to give you that positive outlook.

Please explore my blog this week www.goddessdianatantrabutterfly.com because I have so many essays and small articles sharing my personal experiences with tantra and adult websites.

If you are stuck here in Chicago yourself and find you have extra free time to explore Tantra energies with me then I invite you to read my main website at your leisure www.tantrabutterfly.com

Please enjoy my essay and I hope to see you this winter here in Chicago!

Well I am still here and honestly I do not know how this happened because my original intention was to spend the cold winter months (of which I am not a huge fan) in California! For the past three years of traveling I have been returning to Chicago strictly during our summer and fall season then exploring a warmer climate elsewhere.
So how did I end up getting stuck here in Chicago? Well I was receiving requests from old clients from my past who would give me a couple weeks notice that they were visiting Chicago and then of course I received requests to stay from new clients who found my tantra services broadcasted online and they finally had time to see me so I got sort of “sucked into” this. I don’t mind because it’s been a fairly mild winter compared to the more brutal winters I have known and tasted in the past.
So here are my tips to any of you out there who are experiencing Chicago winters for the very first time. The important thing to remember is socialization. Winter can be a very isolating season. People have a tendency to sleep in more, order a good pizza, nap in their beds and not get out there. I entrust a lot of you find good reasons to stay inside as much as possible and if you have a dog you may be taking shorter walks because you and your dog and not digging this weather that much. I can assure you this all leads to a feeling of “claustraphobia”.
My suggestion is pamper yourself, eat healthfully, walk a little bit then duck into coffee shops as needed and of course try to take some outings to restaurants or movie venues at least three or four times a week.
I have set up some “spa days” for me and my clients this past winter season simply to recharge the energy circuits. Many people are taking off now and going into warmer climates for more sun but if you do not have this luxury or if you own your own business and can’t take off vacation days then I invite you to take a “spa day” with me here in the city of Chicago!
Tantra is about co creating sacred play and circulating positive, playful, healing energy between you and your partner. You end up feeling more youthful and cared for by the end of our spa day. Your muscles will feel more alive and if I did my job diligently you are going to be in a more creative frame of mind and feel more hopeful about life again.
Anyone who schedules a half day or full day of Tantra with me will receive a soothing spa chakra bath first and then after your muscles are relaxed and all the blood flow has returned to your heart I proceed with the Tantra Chakra massage which combines a really hardcore massage. After I have thoroughly warmed up all your major muscle groups I administer tender finger light strokes along your meridians and I guide you with breathing exercises to help send this positive energy everywhere in your body bringing you sensory awareness and stillness.
You will be the recipient of tender and focused touch with an emphasis on sensual massage, cranial sacral still point moves on the back of your skull and aura clearing through reiki exploration.
During a full day of Tantra you have a choice of learning a lot more and you are welcome to learn the basic principles of holding back on sexual energy during our full day of Tantra Massage which is called Edge play or you can learn how to work on the Divine feminine which I refer to as Goddess Worship or Yoni Worship training. During yoni worship training I use my body as a living “model” for you to explore. I give you suggestions on how to tenderly touch and circumnavigate all pleasure zones on my body so you will gradually grow more confident touching your significant other.
Remember how Jack Nicholson’s character Torrence went completely insane as the caretaker of the Overlook hotel? Aside from the fact that the hotel was obviously haunted Winter depression is real and can affect sensitive people in a negative way. Winter can make you feel hopeless at times because there is a lack of lush, green plants to admire as you walk down the street. The skies are overcast and grey and everything is lacking in color during this season at least in the Chicago area.
I invite all visitors to Chicago to schedule a half day of Tantra Massage or a full day of Tantra delights where you can explore any of your desires or goals in a sacred and beautiful space of healing. These spa sessions are away from my personal dwelling space and typically in the downtown area of Chicago so if you are just visiting Chicago for a convention or touring the city out of curiosity you can explore Tantra massage with me as your guide and feel more alive and hopeful again.
Please visit my main website http://www.tantrabutterfly.com for a full menu of Tantra Ceremonies here in Chicago and then call me directly at 312-339-7707 with any additional questions. Half day sessions and full day sessions do require a small deposit so I can arrange a unique spa space for our Sacred Ceremony.
Tantra Massage in Chicago and Sensual Massage in Chicago are sacred escapes to help indulge your need for healing, rest, and sane play. I specialize in healing and safe adult fun that is sacred and sensual rather than base and carnal.
If you have been dying to try tantra here in Chicago and now you find yourself “stuck here” for the winter season I can artfully prepare for you the session of your dreams with some advanced notice from you and you can share your private goals with me to make this happen.
Let’s “shine” together and feed each other positive, flowing and caring energy!
Your Muse
Goddess Diana of http://www.tantrabutterfly.com
Reiki Master
Muse
Tantra Massage therapist
Sound Healer
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