Subtle touch also known as “water touch” is the most healing and
powerful form of shifting your partner’s energy. Everyone feels safe
and if you remember that the aura is the opening portal to sexual
energy then you can allow your heart and good intentions to set the
right mood to heal your lover.
The physical body responds to sound, touch, taste, sight, ether and
smell. We are sentient beings so powerful in our responsiveness that
even the gentlest of touches can shift our well being.
Have you ever stepped into a room full of tension and chaos and just
felt your neck muscles tighten up or your belly contract? These are
all normal responses that your body reacts to based on the energy waves
and patterns of your environment. Just like a sweet ripple effect the
sound of laughter is so inviting and intoxicating that you would
naturally wish to be a part of that joyous energy and you will enter and
partake in that playful energy willingly almost like a healing balm.
Energy is free. If we learn how to breathe in this energy purely and
deeply enough we need never feel a lack of. And if you have nervous
tension or if you feel you have too much nervous energy that is not
yours all you need to do is realize you can take in some nurturing deep
breathes into your heart and your body naturally wishes to heal itself
of drama and trauma.
All you need to remember before healing or touching your lover is to
take in some nurturing, healing and loving deep breathes into your own
heart chakra so that you can open up to more love in your heart space
and be aware of all that loving and free energy from the Universe. Once
your heart chakra is fully activated and pulsing with vitality you can
then begin to sweep gently over the aura of your partner without even
touching their body. Just by hovering over your lover’s body you are
smoothing out their auric body caressing and making love to their aura
their gentle energy imprint.
Our bodies are more yielding to a gentle non invasive stroke much
like wind which gently moves a the tender and delicate wings of a
butterfly. So sweep your lover’s energy body first and take your time
playing with their energy almost as if you were tickling their energy
with a peacock feather.
Using Sage or Sage wands is another perfect example of nurturing your
lover’s energy bubble and sweeping out any chaos or debris or excess
nervous energy from the day’s events. Make sure of course you leave the
window slightly cracked open to allow the smoke to depart and allow
the old energy to leave your home.
Aromatherapy is a delicate and mood enhancing elixir and all you need
to do is carry some key fragrances such as lemon, lime, grapefruit,
vanilla, lavender and any citrus scent to offer a selection and variety
to your lover so they can choose which scent they intuitively need as a
healing balm. We all gravitate towards certain “comfort” scents so
some may prefer flowery, some spicy and pungent, citrus and astringent
or bitter and robust. Have a variety of incense sticks and scents so
that your lover feels comforted and more open to receive a healing and
your touch.
Prepare the room in such a way that enhances calmness, serenity and
beauty. If you choose to decorate the room or sacred space with fabrics
and feathers choose colors your lover prefers. This is their ceremony
so choose colors they gravitate towards. If you wish to use candles
try and stick to one color only as this enhances harmony and
simplicity. Set the stage for play and make it highly personal. Ask
your partner beforehand if they have candle scent preferences and or
colors and fabrics that make them feel comforted and not overwhelmed.
Use your voice in a soothing pitch and feel free to sing and hum into
your lover’s body. This is called toning and the chakras and energy
bodies respond to sounds so sing away and breathe and blow gently on
your lover’s body before even laying one finger on their physical
being.
Using all senses be creative as you introduce a variety of spices and
foods that your lover might want to taste. You might want to have
them bite into delicate spices or sweet delicacies as part of their
tantric love making adventure.
Tantric love making should involve and engage all the subtle energies
in the body before you even decide to engage in physical touch. Just
close your eyes and breathe in all the possibilities. Each Sacred
Ceremony is a chance for you to reconnect with your inner child and
bring you closer to your intuitive divine seed.
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